Mary T. Bush

Mary T. Bush obituary, Rochester, NY

Mary T. Bush

Mary Bush Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Anthony Funeral & Cremation Chapels - Brighton/Rochester Chapel on Nov. 25, 2022.

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Rochester : November 22, 2022 at age 94. It is with deep sorrow that we share news of the passing of Dr. Mary T. Bush, Ph.D. Professor Emerita of History and Political Science Nazareth College. Mary was born on October 18, 1928.
Mary Teresa Ann Bush grew up on Rockingham Street in a three-story house where she spent summers reading mysteries and historical books and watching her older brother, Fred (he became a Roman Catholic priest and Pastor of the Holy Spirit parish in Penfield) play baseball with friends in the backyard. She grew up in Rochester's Blessed Sacrament Parish and attended Blessed Sacrament School. Her mother, Irene Toomy Bush, was a homemaker. Her father, Roy F. Bush, was a major player on the local political scene, including Monroe County Clerk and chairman of the Monroe County Democratic Committee. She always was interested in Presidential history, and she fondly remembered meeting President Truman on the Truman train when he rode through Rochester during his 1948 re-election campaign. A newspaper photographer snapped and published a picture of her presenting flowers to Mrs. Truman.
Her life was dedicated to her faith, supporting her Roman Catholic priest brother Fred, Nazareth College, her many cousins and relatives, and her close friends. She graduated with a B.A. from Nazareth College, an M.A. from Georgetown University, and a Ph.D. from the University of Ottawa. She began teaching history and political science at Nazareth College, beginning a career that would span seven administrations. Mary had many admirable characteristics; a demanding instructor, an encouraging mentor, a thoughtful leader that expected accountability, and a person of compassion that cared about everyone. She rose through the ranks to assistant professor, associate professor, professor, and professor emerita, in history and political science. She served as chair of the department, secretary of the College, coordinator of the American Studies Program, editor of the Nazareth College Catalog, assistant to the vice president for academic affairs.
In the classroom, she was known as a demanding instructor whose introductory remarks to students at the beginning of a semester included the warning: "This is one bush you won't beat around." Mention her name to a former student and the memories pour forth. "She was a good teacher but she was tough." "That lady obviously loves history to the point where it was entertaining that she enjoyed it so much." "Without her guidance I would not have gotten my degree." In addition to her encyclopedic knowledge of obscure historical facts, Mary supported and remembered her students long after they graduated. One remembers receiving a congratulatory note in the mail from her 20 years after he graduated.
Known for her bourbon balls at Christmastime, colored straw hats in the summer and white Reebok walking shoes throughout the year, Mary was a beloved character as well as a venerable member of the institution.
Mary also found time for community and volunteer work beyond the Nazareth campus. For over 50 years, she was involved with the Charles Settlement House, starting out as a day-camp counselor and Girl Scout leader, and eventually becoming a board member and board president. The Charles Settlement House, established in 1917, serves Rochester's northwest neighborhoods, including JOSANA, Edgerton, Dutchtown, Brown Square, Lyell-Otis, Maplewood and Charlotte. More than 3,000 individuals utilize its programs and services. In 2007, Mary received the Volunteer Leadership Award at the 90th Anniversary of the Charles Settlement House.
Mary will be greatly missed by the community as her family. Predeceased by her mother, Irene Toomey Bush, her father, Roy F. Bush and her brother, Reverend Fred Bush. Mary is survived by many loving cousins of the Bush, Toomey, Gleason, Ragan, Rogers, Beatty, Stonehill, Panus and Butler families.
Friends may call Friday, December 9 from 3-6PM at the funeral chapel (2305 Monroe Ave.). Friends are encouraged to bring a written memory or provide thoughts on the Anthony Funeral Chapel website (www.anthonychapels.com). A Funeral Mass will be held Saturday, December 10, 10AM at St. Thomas More Church, 2617 East Avenue. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Nazareth College of Rochester 4245 East Avenue, Rochester, NY 14618 and Charles Settlement House, The Community Place, Attn: Development, 57 Central Park, Rochester, NY 14605.

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Susan Murray

December 12, 2023

I was married to John Butler, one of her nephews, and knew Mary for about 50 years.
She was not only an incredibly accomplished woman: history scholar and professor, a leading light at Nazareth College (now University), a wonderful cook that made a scallop appetizer and luscious prime rib dinner that Millie, John, Jim, Laura, Melissa, Colleen and Jimmy enjoyed, and a woman with a big heart and generosity that gave back to others
(taking care of her brother Father Fred and his parish, volunteering at a settlement house).
Almost forgot to mention those bourbon balls. Great sense of humor - told students that this was one bush that they couldn't beat around. She is missed. - Susan Murray

Jean Quinn

December 10, 2022

Mary and her brother Fr. Fred Bush were our neighbors on Rockingham St. They also attended Blessed Sacrament Church, just as we did. Mary was always friendly and caring to my family She loved gardening in her big yard.
Fr. Bush celebrated my husband Richard's funeral Mass and Mary attended. I will always remember and be grateful for that. May God Bless her soul......

Joann Hinz

December 5, 2022

Most people may remember Mary T. Bush for her incredible knowledge of American history and her tough, demanding standards as a professor at Nazareth University, a school she loved.
To speak only of her professional accomplishments misses the mark. In the summer of 1989, on an alumni trip to Ireland, I met the real Mary. And I liked her so much.
When we boarded our tour bus at Shannon Airport, I was happy to reunite with former classmates and to spend time in the company of my aunt, Dr. Jamesetta Slattery, director of the the graduate program in Education. I felt a bit less enthusiastic about Mary. Yes, I'd done all right in her American Government class. But what an ordeal! To earn passing grades on our exams and papers, not only did our research have to be thorough and our recall of lectures, texts, current events and outside reading precise, but we had to integrate everything with sound, well-documented theses on the questions at hand.
I felt like an epic hero on a quest. What a relief when I succeeded and could put that grueling experience behind me.
When I found myself sharing a seat on the bus with my former professor, I wondered what we would talk about. The Democratic party? The wars abroad? The candidates in the upcoming election?
I need not have worried. Mary was delightful.
As an administrative dean, she had a new role at her beloved college, one that showcased not just her organizational skills, but her kindness and concern for students. She told me how hard she worked to help freshmen get their footing at Nazareth, spending many hours listening to their concerns and counseling them. A teacher myself, I understood I was in the presence of an educator who looked at the whole person and saw young men and women in the context of their lives, past, present, and future. I saw that she felt privileged to be with them for this small stretch of time, helping not only to expand their knowledge, but to open their minds, hearts, and lives.
Many conversations later, I realized that Mary was a kind, thoughtful, and generous person with a keen sense of humor. After the trip to Ireland, she hosted a lovely reunion party at her gracious home near Nazareth. We all had fun and enjoyed some excellent food as we reminisced.
What a woman you were, Mary T. Bush, what a special and beautiful person. I am so glad I came to know you as we rambled through the country of our ancestors. Rest in peace and joy.

Timothy M. Thibodeau

November 27, 2022

Mary hired me as an assistant professor in 1988. She was my chair, colleague and friend for more than three decades. I will be forever grateful for her collegial support, generosity, kindness and great sense of humor. I can't think of anyone who gave more time, talent and love to Nazareth College in her long and distinguished career. My condolences to her loving family and friends.

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