David James Whitaker

David James Whitaker obituary

David James Whitaker

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19

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Anthony Funeral Chapel, Brighton

2305 Monroe Ave., Rochester, NY 14618

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Sep

20

Celebration of Life

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Third Presbyterian Church

4 Meigs Street, Rochester, NY 14607

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David Whitaker Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Anthony Funeral & Cremation Chapels - Brighton/Rochester Chapel on Sep. 8, 2025.

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Passed away peacefully September 4, 2025 after a long, courageous battle.

David was born in Rochester NY, and survived by his wife of 58 years, Stephanie (Strakosh); sons, Kevin (Suzanne), Alex (Eileen); grandchildren, Emily, Jack, Sydney, Katie, Regan, Finn; his sister in law, Kathleen (Jim) Poole, and many nieces and nephews. Predeceased by his parents, Gaylord (Gee) and Betty; stepmother, Janet; brother, Gay; and sister, Margery.

David attended Allendale and was the recipient of Union College distinguished alumnae award. He had a successful career in finance, starting with Security Trust, Essex Investment Group, McDonald Investments/Key Bank retiring as Senior Compliance Officer.

He had a lifelong love of his community, giving back and serving others. Some of his volunteer commitments included Medical Motor Service, and Landmark Society of Western NY, where he was the interim director, Historic Brighton, Brighton Preservation Commission, Chair of Friendly Senior Living, Board of Trustees Chair Al Sigl Center, RIT Dean's Advisory Board, to name a few. He was a member of the Genesee Valley Club and the Club's historian. David spent 80 years on Seneca Point, Canandaigua Lake where he enjoyed

boating, swimming, and tennis with his family.

Friends may call to the funeral chapel (2305 Monroe Ave.) Friday, September 19th from 4-7 pm. A celebration of his life will be held at Third Presbyterian Church (4 Meigs Street) September 20 at 2pm. In lieu of flowers, please consider a gift to the Al Sigl Center, Friendly Senior Living.

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September 9, 2025

C.Thomas and Kathleen (Queenie) Eagle posted to the memorial.

September 9, 2025

Kevin J Phelps posted to the memorial.

September 8, 2025

Anthony Funeral & Cremation Chapels - Brighton/Rochester Chapel announced events.

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C.Thomas and Kathleen (Queenie) Eagle

September 9, 2025

David was the most courageous gentleman that Tom and I ever knew.
He is now at peace with the angels -a well deserved rest.
Blessings to him and family from ,
Tom and Queenie Eagle

Kevin J Phelps

September 9, 2025

I was proud to have worked with David for decades on the Friendly Senior Living Board. He was a great leader, colleague and friend. He will be missed.

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Upcoming Events

Sep

19

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Anthony Funeral Chapel, Brighton

2305 Monroe Ave., Rochester, NY 14618

Send Flowers

Sep

20

Celebration of Life

2:00 p.m.

Third Presbyterian Church

4 Meigs Street, Rochester, NY 14607

Send Flowers