Michael Henry Cuoco

Michael Henry Cuoco obituary

Michael Henry Cuoco

Michael Cuoco Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Holy Angels Funeral Center & Holy Sepulchre Cemetery on Oct. 8, 2025.
In Loving Memory of Michael Henry Cuoco

With hearts deeply shattered, we announce the passing of our father, grandfather, brother, and loyal friend - Michael Henry Cuoco. A man built from steel and soul.

Michael lived with calloused hands and a boundless heavy, stubborn, and beautiful heart. He had a fire for building and painting - cars, motorcycles, and bridges - forging a life entirely on his own terms and with his own hands. Put a tool in his hands, and he'd build the impossible making things bend and shape as he pleased. Give him an idea, and he'd make it real, no matter how big or small or he would teach you how to do it.

He was a man of contrasts - hard as steel yet endlessly imaginative. He was full of honor and loyalty and love. He believed in dragons and family, in magic, in the possibility that life held more wonder than most could see or could ever understand. He loved his cartoons, his motorcycles, and his Italian roots - always talking about our Cuoco heritage and what our lives would look like together in Italy, as if they were legend. And in some ways, they were and are. He was a story teller at heart.

Michael dedicated years of his life to CalTrans, working and training in the structural steel bridge painter's department - a craft as enduring and unyielding as he was. He took pride in work that will outlast him. Laying down roots and teachings to the people he loved and worked beside that he cared deeply for.

He had a huge personality, an incredibly deep soul, and a stubbornness that became his compass. That stubbornness carried him through everything - through hardship, through life, through his craft and his builds, and even through the end. He lived exactly as he wanted, without apology.

To know him was to feel something unforgettable and loyal - a mix of grit and heart. He left a mark that will never fade, a legacy too big for one page, one story, or one lifetime. His life was a masterpiece of color, chaos, and creation - and we are all better for having been part of it. There are no words that can express how deeply he will be missed. We know how many lives he has touched and we ask that you continue to tell the stories and keep him in your heart and your mind and your souls.

Visitation Services
Monday, October 27, 2025, from 4:00 PM – 8:00 PM
Holy Sepulchre – St. Michael Chapel
1051 Harder Road, Hayward, CA 94542
Vigil begins at 6:00 PM - a time to share stories, memories, and the legend of the man we loved.

Funeral Mass & Burial
Tuesday, October 28, 2025, from 10:30 AM – 11:30 AM
Holy Sepulchre Cemetery – Mausoleum of the Apostles
26320 Mission Blvd, Hayward, CA 94544
Burial to follow at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery, Section P, from 11:45 AM – 12:15 PM.

Please keep our family in your prayers as we honor the man who taught us to stand tall, work hard, dream boldly, and live with fire like the dragons he loved.

"The fire still burns."
Per sempre nel nostro cuore.

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October 25, 2025

Joe Perillo posted to the memorial.

October 18, 2025

MK Hickson posted to the memorial.

October 15, 2025

Kymberlee Locklear posted to the memorial.

Joe Perillo

October 25, 2025

RIP Mikey you will be missed. condolences to the family. This is how I will remember you.
Joe

MK Hickson

October 18, 2025

I helped Michael at work with IT and made a trip to the CalTrans Burma facilities where Michael was based.

See Michael's bio he had provided with his work email. He was wonderful, caring, hardworking and had a big heart. What a character.

I tried to get Michael to stop by the District 4 IT office recently and just found out the sad news Friday October 17th that he had passed away. So sad.

My condolences.

Kymberlee Locklear

October 15, 2025

My long time friend. I can not believe I'm writing this. I still remember all the fun we had in grade school, especially when you chased me around the -playground pulling my pigtails. Those were such joyful times and I cherish every moment we created together.
Even though we lost touch the last year, you have always been in my thoughts. The bond we shared was special and I am grateful for the years we stayed in contact.
May you rest in peace, you will always have a special place in my heart.
Much love and respect
Kymberlee Murphy Locklear
(Kim Charbonneau)

Connie Cozzolino-Arias

October 15, 2025

Mikey, too soon!! I've know Mike since before high school, then thru high school we would crash into each other, wink, and keep on going. In our adult life we came in contact once again, still his funny, joking self, and completely unselfish. His kids were little at the time, but he was so proud of his family. Not knowing, but we both lived about 5 blocks away from each other, in Alameda, on the opposite side of Webster St. I would go to the 7/11 down there and always run into Mike, and without fail we would always say hi to each other. Then we both moved away, years passed, and we found each other on Facebook, where our friendship began again. Candice grown, doing amazing in her fashion profession, and again Mike so proud of her accomplishments. He would always brag about her and show off her designs. Proud Daddy he was. To hear of his sudden death was shocking, like a knife to the heart, and hard to believe it was true. And I again had to ask GOD, why do you always take the best ones so early? Mikey, you were a great friend, and awesome proud father, such a great guy, and you will forever be missed my Pisan! Rest easy my friend. Connie Cozzolino-Arias

Jacqui Lloyd

October 11, 2025

Mike Cuoco was fearless! Rest in peace.

Fran Lager (McElhinney)

October 11, 2025

My heart hurts to hear this sad news.
Mikey was a lively soul who was so proud of his family. I always enjoyed his beautiful photos he took from the top of San Francisco´s bridges. His personality was big bold and real. Another "farm boy" left too soon. You will be missed by many. RIP Mikey....my deepest condolences to his family and close friends.

Mark and Karen Merrigan

October 10, 2025

Rest in Peace Mikey!

Bigsteve16

October 9, 2025

So sorry for the loss
He was a very good friend.
Though I didn't see him very often.
He and all of the family are in my prayers

Valdez Lasartemay

October 8, 2025

It's with a heavy heart that I say goodbye to my friend, Michael Cuoco. It's hard to believe he's gone so suddenly, but the memories of our friendship are still vivid and full of warmth.
Michael and I were buddies since grade school, navigating the halls and playgrounds of Haight School in Alameda, California, back in the '70s. When I think of those years, I immediately smile-they were full of mischief and fun times. We were the kind of friends who always had a laugh to share, and those formative experiences are something I'll cherish forever.
Like a lot of childhood friends, we went our separate ways for high school and eventually lost touch, but thankfully, social media brought us back together. Over the years, we reconnected and had so many great chats and laughs, picking up right where we left off.
It was wonderful to see the man he became-a proud father. Michael always lit up when he spoke of his daughter, and I especially enjoyed seeing how proud he was of her success in the public eye in the world of fashion. As a fellow father, I shared that same pride for my own daughter's achievements, and it was a unique bond we shared.
I'm going to truly miss our conversations and his honest, heartfelt sharing of his life experiences. Michael, I loved our times together. You will be deeply missed.
Valdez "Val" Lasartemay

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