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Norman Stephen Gralewski, age 70, passed away suddenly on July 21st, surrounded by loved ones. Known for his kind heart, quick wit, and deep love for his family, Norman leaves behind a legacy filled with laughter, stories, and unforgettable memories.
Gracing the world with his presence, Norman (affectionately known as Storman Norman and Butthead) was born on December 26, 1954, in Detroit, MI to Stanley and Helen Gralewski. He is preceded in death by his parents and his brothers, Stanley Gralewski, Jr. and Cass Kimnor.
He leaves to cherish his memory, his beloved wife, Michelle Gralewski; daughters, Angella Nichols (Chad), Jennifer Ayers (Brent), and Lynne Gralewski-Allee (Bradley); grandchildren, Paul Poonpanich Jr. (Presley), Donavon Nichols, Aubrie Ayers, Jayce "JJ" Ayers, Colton Gralewski-Allee, and Serenity Littrell; brother, Gary Gralewski (Patricia), sister-in-law, Kathy Gralewski; nieces, Roxanne Moore and Jillian Gralewski (Jonathan); furbabies, Stashu, Paws, Stormie, Choo-Choo, Bullet, Rosie, and Cindy Lou Who; and a host of other family and friends.
Married to Michelle for 49 years and 5 days, they had just shared with each other how important it was to make it to 50 years. The two shared a bond built on love, laughter, and constant banter. Their playful bickering was a signature of their relationship — full of affection and humor that kept life lively. They loved nothing more than spending time together at car shows, whether it was the big ones in Frankenmuth and Woodward or a small-town cruise night. They could sit for hours, side by side, simply watching cars roll by and enjoying each other’s company. Just as meaningful were the hours they spent together cheering from the sidelines, proudly watching their grandchildren play sports — always their biggest fans, rain or shine.
A lifelong car enthusiast, Norman could often be found polishing up his classic cars or attending car shows, especially the Woodward Cruise, with pride. His passion for vintage vehicles wasn’t just a hobby — it was a way of life that brought him joy and connected him with his brothers, and a wide circle of fellow car lovers. Dad always said, “A clean car is a happy car.”
Every Christmas, he joyfully stepped into the role of Santa Claus, bringing smiles and magic to countless children and adults alike, recently passing down the tradition to the next generation. With his warm spirit and twinkling eyes, he was Santa — a true reflection of his generous and loving nature.
Norman was an avid golfer who was teased about having an average handicap of 72. Whether hitting the fairway or searching for his ball in the rough, he loved every minute on the course, especially the laughs shared with his family and friends.
From a young age, Norman shared a deep love of trains with his father and brothers — spending countless hours building model railroads, visiting train yards, and watching engines roll by. It was more than a hobby; it was a bond between them that fueled his lifelong appreciation for the rhythm and wonder of the rails.
One of his greatest pleasures was spending time with his grandchildren, who knew that if Grandpa wasn’t teasing or joking around, something was up. His playful sense of humor and endless affection made him a cherished figure in their lives.
Rest easy, Dad. The engine may be quiet now, but your spirit keeps cruising in all of us.
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