Pam Barlow

Pam Barlow obituary, Lebanon, TN

Pam Barlow

Pam Barlow Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Sellars Funeral Home - Lebanon on Dec. 30, 2025.
Pam Barlow, age 53, of Lebanon TN, passed away on December 24, 2025. There will be a Celebration of Life Visitation on Wednesday, January 7, 2026 from 6 p.m. – 7 p.m. at Sellars Funeral Home, Lebanon TN.
Pamela Sue Paris Barlow was born in Lebanon TN to Annie Faye Davis Paris and Charles Rhea Paris Sr. Pam "Precious" always had love for God, country, and her fellow man. She was a self-taught technology whiz, so she had a knack for fixing things, even a car, if needed. Pam was always willing to help, as any respecter of the red, white, and blue would be. She enjoyed fishing and playing pool, and loved being with the grandchildren above all else. She worked at Memories, the Sale Barn, Globe, and Texas Boot, and in childcare.
Pam is survived by her companion of 30 years, Randy Bowers, children Brittany (Terrance) Cason, Tara Belcher, and Stephanie (Austin Hart) Barlow, grandchildren Nahla, Tilah, Samarah, Q'Arius "Bugg", Tre'vaurs, Harmony, Amelia, and Evan, brother Rhea Paris, nieces Heather and Erica, Shelby and Courtney, and great-nieces and great-nephews she considered as grandkids, Hayden, Ariana, and Bentley, and her best friend Kim Fox. She is preceded in death by her parents Annie Faye and Chuck Paris and sister Sandy Paris.
Sellars Funeral Home, Lebanon TN, 615.444.9393.

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