Pamela J. Alexander

Pamela J. Alexander obituary

Pamela J. Alexander

Pamela Alexander Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Beck Funeral Home & Cremation Service, Inc. - Spring Grove on Jul. 22, 2025.

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Pamela J. (Paski) Alexander, age 74, of Spring Grove, passed away peacefully at home on July 19, 2025. She was the loving wife of Ronald H. Alexander; together they shared 55 years of marriage.

Pamela was born in Oklahoma on February 17, 1951 and was the daughter of the late Edgar F. and Rose Marie (Conlin) Paski. She graduated from Conestoga High School and York College of Pennsylvania and enjoyed baking, gardening, quilting, and sewing. Pamela was an active parishioner of St. Rose of Lima Catholic Church in West York where she played the organ and cantored at Masses for many years.

In addition to her loving husband Ronald, Pamela is survived by her children Terri Alexander, Karen Alexander, Jennifer Ritz and husband David, Rachael Zeigler and husband Ken, and Jerry Alexander and wife Molly; 17 grandchildren, including Leah Null, Bethany McAdams, Michael Ritz, Jon Ritz, Ena Warner, Saradin Lewis, Mason Lewis, McKenzie Alexander, and Cameron Alexander; and numerous great-grandchildren. She is also survived by her siblings Edgar Paski, Phil Paski, Ray Paski, and Chris Paski. Pamela was preceded in death by her infant brother Matthew Paski.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend Pamela's Mass of Christian Burial on Friday, July 25, 2025 at 11:00AM at St. Rose of Lima Catholic Church, 950 W. Market St., York, PA 17401 with Rev. Celestine Nwakwuo, O.P. as celebrant. She will be laid to rest following the Mass at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church Cemetery in New Freedom, PA.

In lieu of flowers, contributions in Pamela's memory may be made to St. Rose of Lima Catholic Church, 950 W. Market St., York, PA 17401.

Beck Funeral Home & Cremation Service, Inc., of Spring Grove is entrusted with arrangements and condolences may be shared at www.beckfunerals.com

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Melanie Skotnicki

July 25, 2025

I only knew Pam through St Rose of Lima Church. As a devoted parishioner, she was a cantor for many years, a lector, that even though she had difficulty with her mobility she was always eager to read the Word. At times needed help to get to the Ambo but always made herself available if the person scheduled didn't show. Nothing kept her from mass even if she wasn't feeling well. Pam will be missed, may her sole rest in peace. Melanie Skotnicki

Pat Whiteford

July 24, 2025

Rachel and family, so sorry for the loss of your Mother. Pat Whiteford

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