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Pamela "Pam" Stillman, born in Baltimore, Maryland, to Raymond Edward Warfield and Nancy Violet Warfield (nee Gerben), passed away peacefully on June 19th, 2024, in Santa Cruz, CA. She was 66 years old.
Pam was predeceased by her beloved husband Richard "Buddy" Stillman, and her brother Ray Warfield.
She is survived by her devoted son Andrew Stillman, his partner Sarah Bryant and her cherished grandchildren, James "Jesse" and Daniel Stillman, who were the light of her life. Pam is also survived by her sisters Brenda Warfield, Cindy Guzman, Patti Ardrey, and Annette Hughes.
Pam was a kind and compassionate woman with a beautiful soul. She had a profound love for gardening, which brought her immense joy and peace throughout her life. Pam had a natural talent for caring for others. Her warmth and generosity made her a beloved friend to many. She got through many challenges and hardships in this life by dancing to the beat of her own drum and never giving up.
A celebration of Pam's life will be held on Sunday, June 30th, 2024, at 4:00pm at New Brighton State Beach, in Capitola, CA. Friends and family are invited to celebrate her life and share their memories.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Janus of Santa Cruz (https://janussc.org/) in her memory.
Pamela's legacy of love, kindness and compassion will continue to live on in the hearts of her family and friends. She will be deeply missed but never forgotten.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Stephanie
June 29, 2024
RIP Pam I´m so grateful I had the pleasure to meet you the few times I did. You showed up for my Papas celebration of life and that is when I first met you. You were so kind and gave me praise for turning my life around. Please tell my brother and my Papa I love them so much. RIP
Sonnet Adcox
June 27, 2024
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. There is no one so loving and caring for her family and friends then Pam I am going to miss my Friend Pam
Sonnet Adcox
June 27, 2024
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Julie and Vinnie johnson
June 26, 2024
Pam and I became instant best friends .We had so many wonderful conversations and we both felt we were a lot alike.we gardened together helped each other at home.and helping our good friend Kenny.She will never be forgotten.Rest in Peace my friend.i love you Pam. She had so much love for everybody she met. She has so many people that love her and will miss her so much .She gave alot of herself to everyone. She had so much love she gave and shared to everyone.She gave to homeless people.She was very,very special.this world has changed.
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Sonnet Adcox
June 26, 2024
She was such a good friend to me I will miss her so much
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