Pamela Elaine Toland

Pamela Elaine Toland obituary, Bunnell, FL

Pamela Elaine Toland

Pamela Toland Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Heritage Funeral & Cremation Service on Mar. 5, 2025.

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With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Pamela Elaine Toland, 60, of Bostwick, Florida. Born in Palatka, Florida, on November 18, 1964, to the late Edward and Gladys Edenfield, Pamela's journey on this earth came to a close on March 5, 2025 at Roberts Care Center in Palatka, Florida. Though our hearts ache in her absence, we find comfort in knowing that her love and laughter will forever remain with us.
Pamela was a woman of warmth, resilience, and unwavering love. As a licensed cosmetologist for over 36 years and the proud owner of her own beauty salon in Orange Park, Florida, she had a gift for making others feel beautiful. Her salon was more than a business; it was a place where friendships were formed, confidence was restored, and laughter flowed freely.
Beyond her career, Pamela's greatest joy was her family. She adored dancing with her grandchildren, enjoyed aggravating her children, turning up the music and jammin' out. With a heart full of love and a mischievous essence, she had a knack for bringing smiles to those around her.
Pamela is preceded in death by her parents; her beloved grandson, Malachi; and her siblings, Gary Edenfield, Dale Edenfield, and Sheila Frye.
Left to cherish her memory are her loving children: Heather Moore (Jake), Kimberly Toland Kirby (Steven), and David Burch Jr. (Jennifer). She was a proud grandmother to Jadon, Ashton, Mason, Aria, Paisley, Julian, Teagan, and Faith. Pamela is also survived by her siblings, Dana Waller, Sharon Creech, Leon Edenfield, and Danny Bartlett, along with a host of cherished extended family and dear friends.
A celebration of Pamela's life will be held at a later date, with interment at Bostwick Cemetery.
Pamela's love, laughter, and vibrant spirit will forever echo in the hearts of those who knew her. Though she has danced her way into eternity, her melody will never fade.

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