Pasquale J. Barile

Pasquale J. Barile obituary

Pasquale J. Barile

Pasquale Barile Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by McMahon, Lyon & Hartnett Funeral Home, Inc. on Aug. 14, 2025.

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Pasquale James "P.J." Barile, 33 of West Harrison, New York was called home on August 11, 2025. Born on August 4, 1992, in Port Chester, New York. P.J. lived a life marked by strength, unwavering dedication, and a deep love for his family, friends, and community.

P.J. served as a White Plains police officer for six years. Becoming a police officer was his lifelong dream, particularly to be part of the Neighborhood Initiative Unit. He was a marksman and received honors such as Meritorious Duty II. In both his professional and personal life, he embodied the true spirit of "Protect and Serve." His commitment to safeguarding others extended far beyond his badge. He was a steadfast presence for those around him during times of hardship.

P.J. was known for his humility, loving nature, and stoic demeanor. A man of strong faith that found peace and purpose in nature. Much of his time was spent on his property in upstate New York with his father and close friends.

He is deeply mourned by his devoted family: his maternal grandmother Carmela Testa; his father Biagio Barile; his mother Gerardina Testa; and his sister Gabriella Barile. He also leaves behind many loving aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, and endless brothers and sisters in blue who cherished him dearly.

P.J. was preceded by his paternal grandparents Pasquale and Grazia Barile, as well as his maternal grandfather Sabato Testa.

Spread your wings, Peanut. Best Buddies Forever. We love you to the moon and back.

A wake service will be held at McMahon, Lyon & Hartnett Funeral Home from 3:00-8:00pm on Thursday, August 21, 2025 in White Plains, New York. A mass service will be held at McMahon, Lyon & Hartnett Funeral Home at 11:00am on Friday, August 22, 2025 in White Plains, New York. Procession to Ferncliff Cemetery Hartsdale, New York to follow.

In lieu of flowers donations can be made to Wounded Warrior Project at woundedwarriorproject.org or Tunnel to Towers at t2t.org.

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Joanne Cottini

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I am so sorry for your loss. May you find the strength to deal with your sadness, as you move forward with your grief. May happy memories help to cushion the forever holes in your heart. Thoughts and prayers to both friends and family, who mourn the loss, of a remarkable young man.

Richard & Madeline DeFeo

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Benny and family, our deepest sympathy and condolences. We are in prayer for the comfort of the Lord to rest on you all and bring you peace.

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Nubia Zazzini

August 15, 2025

My condolences my he rest in peace

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