Patricia Jane Côté

Patricia Jane Côté obituary, Bakersfield, CA

Patricia Jane Côté

Patricia Côté Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 27, 2025.
Patricia Jane Coté passed away peacefully in Los Angeles, California, surrounded by her three children. She had just turned 66.

Patricia grew up in Fresno, California. A proud Bruin, she attended UCLA, where she earned a Bachelor of Arts in History. She then moved to San Diego to attend the University of San Diego School of Law, where she received her Juris Doctor. In 1989, she returned to California's Central Valley and began her career as an attorney for the State Compensation Insurance Fund in Bakersfield, specializing in workers' compensation defense. While there, she received numerous awards for her outstanding performance.

Patricia was a devoted mother of three, dedicating her life to her children. Her deep Catholic faith was a constant source of strength and guidance. As a first-generation American, she proudly celebrated her Mexican heritage by cooking enchiladas and tostadas and listening to Spanish music. She also found joy in watching classic television shows such as Leave It to Beaver and I Love Lucy, as well as dancing and painting. A history buff, she had a particular interest in World War II books and documentaries. Patricia shared a special bond with her dog, Roger, who brought her joy and companionship during the last decade of her life.

Patricia is survived by her three children, Zachary, Natalie, and Jeremy Sanders. She was predeceased by her father, Joseph Coté, and her mother, Eva Christensen.

She was kind, smart, and generous. Her compassion touched many lives, and she will be deeply missed.

A memorial mass will take place on Tuesday, April 1 at St. Phillip the Apostle Catholic Church in Bakersfield, California at 9:30 AM with a reception to follow. There will be a recitation of the Rosary at 9:00 AM, prior to the service.

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March 31, 2025

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Silas Robinson

July 28, 2025

My name is Eric Robinson
I attended UCLA with Patricia. Though I´m from a tiny town in East Texas, I spent my freshman year at UCLA and lived in the dorms with Patricia and numerous other friends. I was reminiscing about my college days and thought of one of my dear friends, Patricia.
She exhibited all the characteristics that everyone has mentioned. My prayers to the remaining family.
I thank God for the memories God allowed us to have with our loved ones. I also thank God that those in the faith will see one another again!
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Arlette Crosland

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Katie Price

March 27, 2025

Patricia and I had some super fun times together over the past decade! She was fun, kind, smart and a very loyal friend. I will miss her a lot.

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