Patricia Eitner

Patricia Eitner obituary, Midland Park, NJ

Patricia Eitner

Patricia Eitner Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Vander Plaat Funeral Home - Wyckoff on Feb. 5, 2025.
Patricia Eitner – February 4, 2025
Patricia Eitner, (nee Guidera), 79, of Waldwick, NJ, passed away peacefully surrounded by her
family on Tuesday, February 4, 2025. Patricia is survived by her beloved husband of 59 years,
Joseph Francis Eitner, with whom she shared a lifetime of love and memories. She was a
devoted and loving mother to her sons, Joseph Francis Jr., Michael Anthony, Matthew David,
and John-Paul, and mother-in-law to Valerie (nee Wonsowicz), Shannon (nee Gallo), Katie (nee
Konde), and Kimberly (nee Stanton). She was the proud grandmother of thirteen, a title she
deeply cherished. Her grandchildren-Jack, Isabella, Ryan, Joseph, Daniel, Ella, Matthew, Luke,
Brynn, Jane, Russell, Blake, and Benjamin were her greatest blessings. Patricia was pre-
deceased by her sister Rosemary, and survived by her sister Barbara, and brother Peter. She
was a caring and giving aunt to many nieces and nephews, grand nieces and nephews, and
great grand nieces and nephews.
Patricia was born in The Bronx, NY in 1945, and moved to Edgewater, NJ in 1953. She attended
public schools there and graduated from Leonia High School in 1963. Patricia settled in
Waldwick, NJ with her family in 1969. She remained a fixture at St. Luke's Roman Catholic
Parish, assorted ball fields, gymnasiums, diners and restaurants for the next four plus decades.
Patricia was extremely involved with many Catholic ministries. She served as Marriage
Encounter Coordinator and Natural Family Planning Coordinator for the Archdiocese of Newark,
a Trustee at St. Luke's Parish, Member of the Lay Salesian Board of Trustees, and President of
the Mother's Guild at Don Bosco Prep High School. Patricia later founded and managed two
small businesses with her husband and son.
Patricia's stately grace and positive energy were hallmarks that she took into every corner of
her life. She loved personal interactions with everyone she encountered, was an amazing cook
and incredibly talented sunbather. Through everything, her faith came first. Patricia was an
advocate of the unborn and defender of the Church.
A viewing will be held on Thursday, February 6 th, from 4:00-8:00pm at Vander Plaat Funeral
Home in Wyckoff, NJ and a Funeral Mass at St. Luke's Parish, in Ho-Ho-Kus, NJ on Friday,
February 7th at 12noon, with the burial at St. Luke's Cemetery to follow immediately
thereafter.
In lieu of flowers donations in memory of Patricia can be made to Good Counsel Homes, 600 Meadowlands Parkway, Suite 251, Secaucus, NJ 07094
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February 9, 2025

Jane and Glen Azzolino posted to the memorial.

February 9, 2025

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February 6, 2025

Doreen Bechard posted to the memorial.

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Jane and Glen Azzolino

February 9, 2025

To the Eitner Family, we just heard of the loss of your wonderful wife and mother.We ( the Azzolino family) have so many great memories as neighbors and friends for many years. Pat was always ready to lend a hand and a
help friend ! Our kids spent many years playing together on the block.. We are so heart broken for you all and send many prayers during this time to help heal your pain .
God bless you Pat and may you rest in peace

Jeanine ferenc

February 9, 2025

Joe, Barbara, and Peter Deep prayers and thoughts are with the Gudiera family during this time. Always and forever we think about and cherish memories of our cousins. From the family of the late Rose Mauro Frey Dziwulski. Love You Forever, Tom, John And Jeanine

Doreen Bechard

February 6, 2025

I remember Mrs. Either at all the softball games I went to with my mom to watch my Uncle Billy play or coach, all the Don Bosco Football games I went to when I was in Grade School and then I remember her from when I was in High School going to the Don Bosco Jr. prom in 1993. She is and will always be remembered as a beautiful, graceful, "classy" woman in my book. I did and will always admire the woman she was! Matt I hope you and your family are doing well and my thought and prayers are with you and your family right now! I always loved your mom and I even 20 years later she always remembered me and talked to me if I saw her out and about! Please know how awesome she was and I will always tell people that. Doreen Bechard (Billy Stegle´s) niece!

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