Patricia K. LaColla

Patricia K. LaColla obituary, North Salem, NY

Patricia K. LaColla

Patricia LaColla Obituary

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Patricia La Colla, 97, passed away peacefully on November 18, 2025. Born and raised in Brooklyn, Patricia carried the warmth, humor, and quiet strength of her early years throughout her life. She was born a twin, her brother Phillip passing at birth, a loss that remained a quiet part of her family story. After marrying her husband, Peter, she settled in Yonkers, New York, where together they raised six children and created a home filled with love, resilience, and the joyful rhythm of family life.

A woman of great faith in God, Patricia lived her beliefs through kindness, patience, and compassion. Her faith was her steady guide, shaping the way she cared for her loved ones and all who knew her.

Patricia built a long and respected career at the phone company, retiring from a management position. She approached her work with dedication and integrity, forming lasting friendships along the way.

After Peter, her husband of 36 years, passed away in 1994, Patricia moved to Poughquag, New York, where she lived with her daughter Jeanne. There, surrounded by nature and family, she continued to offer the gentle presence, encouragement, and unmistakable spirit that defined her. She also endured the loss of loved ones, including her sister, Roseanne Sheehan, who passed in 2021, and her closest friend, Kay Farrell, who passed in 2020.

Patricia was a truly loving mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. She delighted in good food, a glass of wine, gardening, the beauty of the outdoors, a strong cup of coffee, and above all, the company of her family. She is survived by her children-Anne Agostino, Bob La Colla, Jeanne Coppola, Rosemary La Colla, Sue La Colla, and Pete La Colla-and by her cherished children-in-law: James Agostino; Carole La Colla; the late John Coppola; and Brent Mather.

At the time of her passing, Patricia was blessed with ten grandchildren and nine great grandchildren, all of whom she loved deeply and who brought her great joy.

Her memorable reminder to "go outside and play" reflected her belief in life's simple pleasures and in embracing the world with curiosity and gratitude.

Patricia will be laid to rest at Gate of Heaven Cemetery in Hawthorne, New York, beside her beloved husband, Peter La Colla.

May her memory be a blessing, and a gentle reminder of faith, love, and the enduring beauty of family.

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