Patricia Mills

Patricia Mills obituary, Kings Park, NY

Patricia Mills

Patricia Mills Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Clayton Funeral Home, Inc. - Kings Park on May 27, 2025.

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Patricia "Pat" Mills (nee Carney) of Smithtown, NY, passed away peacefully in St. Catherine's Hospital after a brief illness on May 24th at 72 years of age.
Born to Rita and James Carney, Pat attended Kings Park High School and began working for Bell Atlantic (NYNEX) as an operator after graduation, following in her father's footsteps working at the phone company.
She married Jeremiah Mills and had sons Jeremiah in 1976 and Colin in 1985. Pat was a devoted daughter, sister, and mother, showing her selflessness through small acts of kindness and an inner strength that was unwavering. Even though she didn't like the spotlight, she had a beautiful smile and a ready laugh.
She was especially fond of all of her grandchildren, always going above and beyond in showing her love for them. Pat was also an animal lover, ocean enthusiast, avid reader, and lover of British television. She was predeceased by both her parents and her brother James. She will be sorely missed by her surviving family: Jeremiah (son), wife Kelly, and their sons Aidan, Liam, and Elias; Colin, wife Emma, and their daughter Fiona; and her sister Maureen Lynch, husband John Lynch, and niece Emily Fritch.
In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to:
St. Jude Children's Research Hospital
Lupus Foundation of America
World Wildlife Fund
The Brain injury Association of America

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25 Meadow Rd, Kings Park, NY 11754

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