Patty Jo Durfee

Patty Jo Durfee obituary, Winston-Salem, NC

Patty Jo Durfee

Upcoming Events

Mar

30

Celebration of Life

4:00 p.m.

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

4780 Westchester Rd, Winston-Salem, NC 27103

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Jun

9

Graveside service

12:00 a.m. - 1:00 a.m.

Lovell Cemetery

1123 County Ln 13, Lovell, WY 82431

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Patty Durfee Obituary

Visit the Hayworth-Miller Funeral Home Silas Creek Chapel - Winston-Salem website to view the full obituary.

Patty Jo Durfee, age 68, passed away on January 16, 2026.

Patty Jo was born in Denver, Colorado, to Myra Hatch and Arden Norton Durfee. From the beginning of her life, she carried a strength and a caring spirit that shaped the way she loved and supported those around her. She was a devoted mother, cherished family member, and dear friend.

Patty Jo’s life was defined by her love for her children, and grandchildren. Her life was influenced and guided by her strong testimony of the Savior and her membership in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. She gave of herself fully, offering tenderness, resilience, and compassion to those she loved.

Patty Jo is survived by her loving companion, William Wills, and her four children: Cody Schnakenburg (Cathy), Jake Schnakenburg (Andrea), Amy Cabealawa (Mark), Mary Schanno (Jeremey), and eleven beloved grandchildren, who were a constant source of joy and pride in her life. She was preceded in death by her parents, Myra Hatch and Arden Norton Durfee, and her brothers, Lloyd Durfee, Jeffery Durfee, and Charles Durfee.

Those who knew Patty Jo will remember her for her contagious laugh, gentle heart, her quiet strength, and the way she made others feel truly seen and cared for. Her legacy lives on in the love she gave and the lives she touched.

A celebration of Patty Jo’s life will be held March 30th at 4pm at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints at 4780 Westchester Road, Winston Salem, NC 27103. A graveside service will be held in Wyoming at the Lovell cemetery on June 9th.

She will be deeply missed and forever remembered.

For those unable to attend, please click the link provided to view the service live on. March 30th at 4pm Eastern Time
https://zoom.us/j/96674980654?pwd=GA1zrYiNKFOdsloDWifF4v1uNgSvra.1

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Hayworth-Miller Funeral Home Silas Creek Chapel - Winston-Salem

3315 Silas Creek Parkway, Winston-Salem, NC 27103

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Upcoming Events

Mar

30

Celebration of Life

4:00 p.m.

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

4780 Westchester Rd, Winston-Salem, NC 27103

Send FlowersBook nearby hotels

Jun

9

Graveside service

12:00 a.m. - 1:00 a.m.

Lovell Cemetery

1123 County Ln 13, Lovell, WY 82431

Send FlowersBook nearby hotels