Paul "Butch" B. Coffey, Sr.

Paul "Butch" B. Coffey, Sr. obituary, Worcester, MA

Paul "Butch" B. Coffey, Sr.

Paul "Butch" Coffey, Sr. Obituary

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WORCESTER-Paul B. “Butch” Coffey, Sr., 82 passed away Tuesday, June 6 at St. Vincent Hospital.

He leaves his wife of 58 years, Margaret M. “Peggy” (O’Grady) Coffey; four children, Michael P. Coffey and his wife, Charlene of Jefferson, Kathleen M. Coffey of Worcester, Daniel J. Coffey and his wife, Kristan of Paxton, James J. Coffey of Worcester, and predeceased Paul B. Coffey Jr.; six grandchildren, Colin and his fiancée, Miranda Prentiss, Patrick, Brendan, Kayleigh, Connor, and Olivia; a daughter in law, Theresa A. Coffey of Oakham; a brother-in-law, Ralph “Ray” O’Grady of Holden, and many nieces and nephews. His brother, Jeremiah Coffey, as well as his sister, Mary Hullinger, predeceased him. He was born in Worcester, son of Daniel and Anna (Quinlivan) Crowley and was a graduate of St. Peter’s High School, where he lettered in football and basketball.

Paul worked for the City of Worcester School Department Special Education Transportation Dept. for 42 years before retiring. He was a member of St. Peter’s Church, the Knights of Columbus Alhambra Council #88 and its golf league. He enjoyed cheering on the Red Sox, family summer trips to Hampton Beach, and days on the golf course.  But his greatest joy was spending his days with the love of his life, Peggy.  

The family would like to thank the Worcester Fire Department, Worcester EMS, St. Vincent Hospital Pulmonary Care Unit / ICU for their loving care. 

Visiting Hours are Tuesday, June 13 from 9-10:30am at Callahan Fay Caswell Life Celebration Home, 61 Myrtle St. A Funeral Mass will follow at 11am at St. Peter's Church, 931 Main St. Burial will be in St. John's Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital at www.stjude.org or the Shriner's Hospital at www.donate.lovetotherescue.org

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Callahan Fay Caswell Funeral Home

61 Myrtle St, Worcester, MA 01608

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June 13, 2023

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June 7, 2023

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Dan Doyle

June 15, 2023

In early September 1961, several of my grade seven St. Peter's friends and I decided to form a football team, and thus issue game challenges to the other Catholic grammar schools in our city. Of course, we neglected to consider one essential requirement for success...the need for good coaching.

Fortunately, upon hearing of our undeveloped plan, our splendid parish curate, Father Donald Gonyner arranged for Butch Coffey and Billy Donovan to assume the coaching reins. We surely knew of Butch and Billy, for they had both been outstanding football players at St. Peter's High, and we were thrilled to learn the news. Yet however roused we were, Butch and Billy both exceeded our lofty expectations. Both young men possessed a textbook knowledge of football and a coaching demeanor that brought out the best in all of us.

Years later, when I entered the coaching profession, I often thought back of those two young men and how, at such an early age, they had defined the best of coaching.

While I lost contact with Butch over the years, I certainly never forgot the great work that he and Billy did with our young team.

My condolences to the Coffey Family over the loss of a terrific and highly influential guy.

RIP Butch.

Dan Doyle

Dawn (Pepper) Vessella

June 13, 2023

Peggy, I´m so sorry for your loss. Butch was a great guy. He will be missed.

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