Paula Kessler Petito

Paula Kessler Petito obituary, Chappaqua, NY

Paula Kessler Petito

Paula Petito Obituary

Visit the Ballard-Durand Funeral & Cremation Services of Hawthorne website to view the full obituary.

Paula Petito, beloved daughter of Irving and Ida Kessler, wife of Dominic Petito, and mother of Janine and Robert Petito, passed away from complications of COVID early morning on April 29, 2025.

Paula faced much adversity with tremendous grace over the past few years and had successfully beaten two separate cancers. Her latest illness was unexpected and sudden, with devastating effect, and her family is heartbroken.

Paula was born in the Bronx and raised in Yonkers, New York. She graduated from Cornell University to become a dietician, working in Veterans Administration hospitals in Los Angeles, Beacon, Northport and Brooklyn for many years. With the birth of her children, Janine and Robert, she became a dedicated mother. She was a fervent supporter of the entire Chappaqua Central School District, serving on leadership of the PTA when her kids were in school. She was a fierce advocate for special education programs and believed that children with learning differences deserved the resources, attention and opportunity to achieve their academic potential.

She will be remembered for her immense love, generosity, intelligence, and her enthusiasm for cooking and feeding everyone around her.

The family will begin to celebrate her on Thursday, May 1st with a graveside ceremony, followed by a reception at her home.

The Family wishes for memorial donations to be made to either, The New York Community Trust: https://thenytrust.org/ways-to-give/give-now/ or the Feeding Westchester: https://feedingwestchester.org

Make a Donation
in Paula Petito's name

How to support Paula's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Paula Petito's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more