Queta Hamner Obituary
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She is survived by:
Three sons:
Paul "Davy" McLaughlin and wife Rhonda of Poteau, Oklahoma
Danny McLaughlin and wife Jennette of Panama, Oklahoma
Jeff Hamner and companion Tiffany Acton of Heavener, Oklahoma
Several grandchildren
Several great-grandchildren
Numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, other relatives, and a host of many friends
She was preceded in death by her parents; one daughter, Lisa Hamner; four brothers Charles Naylor, William V. Naylor, Donald Naylor, and Carol Naylor; two sisters Faye and Willa Mae; and three grandsons Shae McLaughlin, Nathan McLaughlin, and Jace Hamner.
Queta was a life-long resident of the area and a homemaker. She loved spending time with her family and friends. Queta will be missed by all that knew and loved her.
Graveside service will be 10:00 a.m., Monday, September 29, 2025 at the Conser Cemetery with Brother Mike Steelman officiating. Burial will follow under the direction of Dowden-Roberts Funeral Home of Heavener, Oklahoma.
Pallbearers will be:
Davy Mclaughlin, Danny McLaughlin, Dustin McLaughlin, Jeff Hamner, Camryn Wickware, and Caston Wickware
Viewing will be from 1:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m., Sunday at the funeral home.
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