Raymond M. "Ray" James

Raymond M. "Ray" James obituary, Wilton, NH

Raymond M. "Ray" James

Raymond James Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Compassionate Cremation Services of New Hampshire on Jun. 11, 2024.

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Raymond Melvin James, 83, of Manchester, NH, passed away on Saturday June 8, 2024. He was born April 6, 1941, in Hartford, CT to parents Percy and Anna (Habern) James.
Ray completed his master's degree and went on to work as an electrical engineer. In the early days of his career, he helped to develop the antenna that assisted in the first landing on the moon. He spent the majority of his career working at Raytheon, and retired this past December 2023. Ray was known to friends as the 'King of the Party'. He loved to salsa dance and would travel anywhere and everywhere to dance. He was very active and enjoyed biking, walking, Pilates and kayaking. He enjoyed hiking and was a member of the 4000s footer club, having hiked all the 4000-foot mountains in NH. He loved down hill and cross country skiing. He liked to travel and had hoped to retire to Colombia.
He is survived by his wife Barbara Vasquez of Manchester, NH; his daughters Marcie James and her husband Yazid Aliouche of Nashua, NH, Andrea James of San Francisco, CA, his "Ghanian daughter" Letitia Acquah; his "little brother" Jeremy Anaya, who was like a son too him and his sister Evelyn Gregson.
He is predeceased by his loving first wife of 38 years Donna, his brother Bruce and his sister Shirley.
Family and friends are warmly welcomed to attend calling hours at the Michaud Funeral Home, 32 Maple St, Wilton, NH on Sunday June 16 from 5pm – 7pm.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that memorial donation be made in Ray's memory to Big Brothers, Big Sisters of New Hampshire.
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July 25, 2024

Karen Spoffield posted to the memorial.

June 16, 2024

Gail Lynch planted trees.

June 15, 2024

Rae Lambert posted to the memorial.

Karen Spoffield

July 25, 2024

I always loved dancing with him. Very nice man, he often paid the bills for dancing when the others were too cheap to pay.

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Gail Lynch

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Rae Lambert

June 15, 2024

Always loved dancing with Ray! He was a bright soul, and he taught us we can all dance through life for many decades to come. Sending love to all his family and friends.

Kevin Heath

June 15, 2024

I'm going to miss talking sports with him during our social dances and seeing him in classes as he was always fumbling with his camera and the last one ready to record the combo of the day. Always saying "hold on, hold on!"

Kimberly Vanaman

June 15, 2024

What a wonderful life-I had the pleasure of being a dance teacher for Ray. I'm sure he will dance on in our memories and hearts. RIP Kim Vanaman

Jeremy

June 13, 2024

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June 16, 2024

Gail Lynch planted trees.

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Rae Lambert posted to the memorial.