Raymond Howard O'Haver

Raymond Howard O'Haver obituary, Oakland, MD

Raymond Howard O'Haver

Raymond O'Haver Obituary

Visit the Fredlock & Fenner Funeral Homes, P.A. - Oakland Chapel website to view the full obituary.

Raymond H. "Double Clutcher" O'Haver, 83, of Oakland, passed away on December 10, 2024, at Mon Health Medical Center. Born on October 4, 1941, in Bloomington, he was the son of the late Thomas Riley O'Haver and Nettie Bertha Leona (Lantz) O'Haver Starkey.

Raymond was a proud 1960 graduate of Southern High School. After high school, he served his country honorably in the United States Army, where he developed a lifelong bond with fellow servicemen. Raymond spent his professional life as a dedicated truck driver, working for various companies where his reliability and hard work were well respected. His commitment to his community was evident through his lifetime membership in the Gorman Volunteer Fire Department along with the VFW Post #10077, and the Proctor Kildow American Legion Post 71. In his free time, Raymond found joy in gardening, hunting, and lending a hand at his neighbor's butcher shop. Above all, Raymond cherished the time spent with his grandchildren, great grandchildren, and his dog, Bear.

He is survived by his wife of 56 years, Naomi (McRobie) O'Haver, to whom he was married on March 5, 1968; his daughter, Mia Lansberry and Husband Bill; three grandchildren, Chaz Lansberry and wife Tabby, Cole Lansberry and wife Kim, and Bryan Lansberry and wife Rebecca; two great grandchildren, Adaline and Noah, and one great grandchild on the way; a host of nieces and nephews; his special friends Richard and Donna Blamble; and his beloved dog, Bear.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by three children, Harold L. O'Haver, Raymond "Sonny" O'Haver, Jr., and Melissa D. O'Haver; his sister, Mary Ellen O'Haver and husband James; and a brother in law, Joseph McRobie.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Gorman Fire Dept., or the Southern Garrett Rescue Squad.

Friends will be received on Monday, December 16, 2024, from 4 to 7 PM, at the C & S Fredlock Funeral Home, P.A., 21 N. Second St., Oakland. A funeral service will be held on Tuesday, December 17, 2024, at 11 AM in the funeral home with Pastor Sam Moon officiating. Interment will follow in the Garrett County Memorial Gardens.

The C & S Fredlock Funeral Home is honored to be serving the O'Haver family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Make a Donation
in Raymond O'Haver's name

How to support Raymond's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Raymond O'Haver's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more