Raymond D. Philo

Raymond D. Philo obituary, Utica, NY

Raymond D. Philo

Raymond Philo Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Friedel, Williams & Edmunds Funeral Home - New Hartford on Aug. 21, 2025.

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Raymond D. Philo, 91, of New Hartford and Old Forge, N.Y., passed away on August 17, 2025, surrounded by family.
Ray was born on November 25, 1934, the son of Leo and Dorthy Philo. He grew up in Washington Mills and spent a considerable amount of time at the family summer home in Old Forge. He graduated from New Hartford High School where he was known as an accomplished athlete, especially on the baseball field and basketball court.
Upon graduation from High School Ray enlisted in the United States Army where he served during the Koren Conflict and received the National Defense Service Medal. One of Ray's favorite memories of his Army Service was while stationed at Fort Eustis, Virginia, he served in the same Company as Willie Mays and often played catch with him on their off time. At this time Willie Mays was not a world-renowned baseball player that he would eventually become. Upon discharge from the Army Ray continued his education by attending Mohawk Vally Community College.
Ray was very active in the New Hartford and Old Forge Communities, dedicating his volunteer activities to the Willowvale Fire Company, the New Hartford Volunteer Fire Department, and the Old Forge Volunteer Fire Department. He was also active for many years as a coach for New Hartford Little League, and New Hartford Pop Warner Football.
Ray was a well-known local businessman who was active in many civic organizations including the New Hartford Jaycees, the Northwood Masonic Lodge # 849 in Old Forge, N.Y., and attended the New Hartford Presbyterian Church. Ray was married to Carol Murphy, a blessed union of over 50 years. Carol predeceased Ray in 2023.
Ray is survived by his children; Deborah Green (Bernard), Robert Philo (Sue), and Raymond, and his stepdaughters Deborah Dodge and Sue Minio. He also survived by his beloved grandchildren, Kim, Allison, Christopher, Patrick, Katie, and Aaron. Surviving are also great-grandchildren; Jack, Ellie, Laeklyn, Kieran, Jordan, Austin and Jack. Also surviving are two sisters-in-law: Patricia Philo (Florida), and Janet Schoen (Whitesboro), along with numerous nieces and nephews. Ray was predeceased by his two brothers David Philo, and Gerald Philo.
The family would like to recognize and thank the caregivers at the Masonic Home (Troy Household) and the Healthcare Workers at Winn Hospital for their excellent care during Ray's last days.
At Ray's request there are no calling hours and a private memorial service with Military Honors will be held at the convenience of the family. Arrangements are being handled by Friedel, Williams & Edmunds Funeral and Cremation Services, 13 Oxford Road in New Hartford.
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Tim Riley

September 1, 2025

Rest in Peace Raymond, thoughts and prayers for your loved ones....

Jane reilly

August 27, 2025

so sorry to hear of Ray´s passing Deb Ray andBob

Diane Demo

August 22, 2025

Deb, Bob and Ray, I´m so sorry to hear of Ray´s passing. He was always interesting and fun to talk to whenever we saw each other. I remember being surprised that he and Carol knew folks from Croghan , including my parents. Losing a parent is very hard. A piece of you seems to be missing. You reach for the phone to share a special event in your life, but no one answers. Continue to share stories and your love not only for him but each other.

Joe and renee varieur

August 22, 2025

Deb, Bob and Ray , both renee an i are very sorry to read of the passing of your dad . He was a great man , that was enjoyable to be with , both in the NHFD and the jaycees. Just think of all the fun times of the past and those smiles will come back to all of you . Joe and renee varieur

gary forrest

August 21, 2025

Worked with ray as a volunteer in 2023 when he came to the Masonic care community. Always asking me how he could help out regardless of his condition. Despite all the sudden changes in his life his spirit was always strong. Enjoyed knowing him.

Tom Blackstone

August 21, 2025

I remember ray as a brother mason friend but more as the bus driver with Utica/Rome bus co. and all the trips with ray and carol over the years. Now Ray join Carl and rest in peace. I am glad to have know you. Tom B.

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