Rhonda Sue Smith

Rhonda Sue Smith obituary, Bartlesville, OK

Rhonda Sue Smith

Rhonda Smith Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Stumpff Funeral Home & Crematory - Bartlesville on Feb. 2, 2026.
Rhonda (Flynn) Smith was born in Kansas City, Missouri on August 21s, 1956, to parents Charles & Della Flynn. Rhonda was the youngest of 8 siblings being called "The Brat". She had 4 children, 4 grandchildren, and 1 great grandson whom she loved very much and was called Moo Moo and Lil Grandma.

She will be missed dearly by so many friends and family. Rhonda was always laughing, being sarcastic, and acting silly with a smile on her face. She was known for doing crafts, making jewelry or creating gifts for everyone. Her favorite time of year was when her and her 4 remaining sisters would have a week long gathering at a cabin catching up on stories of their lives. Sitting around razzing each other, playing games, and doing crafts. They were known by family as the "Fantastic 5". Never a dull moment when they were together. Family would come visit them that week just to listen to their stories and be around the love and laughter they shared.

Rhonda leaves behind her childhood Sweetheart Thomas Drennon. They may have

been on two different paths most of their lives but managed to find one another again.

Rhonda and Tom were together 25 wonderful loving years. Tom says, "She was the love of my life". They lived together in Kansas City Missouri for most of their relationship before moving to Bartlesville Oklahoma to be closer to her daughter and grandchildren.

Rhonda is survived by her childhood sweetheart Thomas Drennon. Son & daughter in law Lance & Gina Flynn of St Louis Mo. Daughter Heather Smith & Son in law Clinton Waller of Bartlesville OK. Daughter in law Sarah Flynn of St Louis Mo.

Grandchildren: Dominic Parker & Fiancé Elizabeth Lee, Anastasia Parker & partner Tobi Holland, Caydence Waller, and James Flynn. Great Grandson Aven Parker. 3 Sisters:

Charline, Judy, and Sharen. Including plenty of nieces, nephews and cousins. Too many to count

Preceded by her son's Jarmie (Jerry) Flynn & Jason Smith. Her parents Charles & Della Flynn. Brothers James (Jim) and Joseph. Sisters Pauline & Connie.

A celebration of life will be held at a later date.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Stumpff Funeral Home & Crematory - Bartlesville

1600 Southeast Washington Boulevard, Bartlesville, OK 74006

Make a Donation
in Rhonda Smith's name

How to support Rhonda's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Rhonda Smith's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Rhonda Smith's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?