Richard O'Dell Cain II

Richard O'Dell Cain II obituary, Bethany, OK

Richard O'Dell Cain II

Upcoming Events

Nov

14

Memorial service

3:30 p.m.

Mercer-Adams Chapel

3925 N. Asbury Ave., Bethany, OK 73008

Send Flowers

Services provided by

Mercer-Adams Funeral Service

Only 1 day left for delivery to next service.

Richard Cain Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Mercer-Adams Funeral Service from Nov. 10 to Nov. 12, 2025.

Publish in a newspaper

Richard O'dell Cain II was born on February 4, 1960, weighing 7 Ibs. 11oz. His father said he was destined to be a crap shooter. Instead, he was a career journeyman electrician, and a proud member of his local IBEW, retiring in 2022 after a career of almost 50 years.
Richard was the proud father of Taryn Cain Long (Mervyn) of Mosca, Colorado and grandfather to his beautiful granddaughter, Demi.
Richard was the third child and oldest son of Richard Cain, Sr. and Julia Beckman Cain, both deceased. He was also preceded in death by his sister, Catherine Cain.
He is survived by his sister, Mary Cain-Maxey (Mike); brother, Curtis Cain (Tracy); and numerous nieces, nephews and grandchildren.
Richard was an outdoorsman who enjoyed hunting, fishing and things that went bang. He was also gifted in the kitchen where he made some of the best chili and beans.
From beginning to end, Richard lived life on his own terms.
To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Richard, please visit our floral store.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

How to support Richard's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Richard Cain's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Upcoming Events

Nov

14

Memorial service

3:30 p.m.

Mercer-Adams Chapel

3925 N. Asbury Ave., Bethany, OK 73008

Send Flowers

Services provided by

Mercer-Adams Funeral Service

Only 1 day left for delivery to next service.