Robert E. Berstler, Jr.

Robert E. Berstler, Jr. obituary, Middletown, PA

Robert E. Berstler, Jr.

Robert Berstler, Jr. Obituary

Visit the Fager-Finkenbinder Funeral Home & Crematory, Inc. - Middletown website to view the full obituary.

Robert E. Berstler, Jr., 54, of Columbia passed away unexpectedly on Monday, October 6, 2025. Born in Harrisburg, he was the son of Donna (Hoch) Berstler and the late Robert E. Berstler, Sr. He was the loving husband of 13 years to Lisa M. (Aceto) Berstler.

Bob loved anything to do with cars, from working on them to attending car shows. He especially enjoyed Ford Mustangs. Bob also adored his dogs. Above all, Bob was a loving husband, father, and grandfather.

In addition to his wife and mother, Bob is survived by his daughter, Brittany Criswell; stepdaughter, Ashely Aceto; and two grandchildren, Caleb and Dean.

Services and interment are private at the convenience of the family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Fager-Finkenbinder Funeral Home & Crematory, Inc. - Middletown

208 North Union Street, Middletown, PA 17057

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