Obituary published on Legacy.com by Damiano Funeral Home on Mar. 19, 2026.
Robert G. MacArthur, 72, a veteran, beloved chef, and friend, passed away on March 16, 2026, in
Long Branch, New Jersey. Born on August 21, 1953, in Patterson, NJ, lived in Toms River and
Ocean Grove, NJ. Bob led a life marked by passion, creativity, and dedication to his craft. His journey began at the Culinary Institute of America in Hyde Park, New York, where he honed his culinary skills that would take him to remarkable places.
Bob served his country with honor as a veteran of the Vietnam War, proudly in the Naval Forces. His culinary career was equally distinguished, serving as an executive chef and pastry chef at prestigious establishments, including the United Nations in New York City and the Shadowbrook in Shrewsbury, NJ, where he spent a memorable decade. His role as the Director of Food Management at AT&T Corporation in Middleton, NJ, showcased his leadership and commitment to excellence in the culinary arts. Bob's culinary work was not just a profession; it was a calling that brought joy to countless people throughout his life.
Beyond his impressive career, Bob was a man of many interests. He found solace in nature, often fishing and enjoyed spending time on his beloved boat. A devoted fan of the New York Giants, a broad palate for many cuisines, he embraced every opportunity to share his love for food, often preparing meals from his own garden or local farmers markets. Bob was also a talented woodworker and creative illustrator, showcasing his artistic flair in various forms. His philanthropic spirit shone brightly as he generously supported local food banks, world disaster victims, the homeless, animal causes and initiatives for our armed forces.
Bob is survived by Cherise Kaplan and Evan Yerman. He is also survived by his daughter Shannon Lauro and her children. He leaves behind a close-knit circle of friends, including Hal Feldbaum, Amy Laufer, Pam Lightfoot, the Meincke family, the Vasquez family, the Micalizzi family, among many others who were touched by his kindness and loyalty. He will also be remembered fondly by his brother, Michael MacArthur, his sister Patty Thompson and his loving cousins, Don and Sharon Drexel, their children and many more. Bob was predeceased by his beloved parents, Robert and Marion MacArthur, and his faithful Labrador Retriever, Bailey.
In honor of Bob's life, we invite friends to take a moment of silence, remember his generosity, his humor and his devoted nature in all worldly endeavors. Friendship and love remain.
May the road rise up to meet you. With the wind, be always at your back. May the sunshine warm upon your face, and rains fall soft upon your fields And until we meet again, my God hold you in the palm of His hand.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to K9 for Warriors, INC. web: donate.k9sforwarriors.org, Veterans Memorial Fund ,Web: https://www.vvmf.org/?form=donate and seed donations for the creation of a Memorial Garden in Long Branch, we ask you to use Chive.com, Shido Seeds selection or send to c/o Pam Lightfoot, 103 Carann Drive,
Toms River, NJ. 08753. The family invites you to leave a letter of condolence by selecting the Tribute/Guestbook link above.