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A native of Lebanon, Kentucky he was born on January 8, 1947 to the late Robert Leo and Frances Cyril Spalding Ray.
He was a 1965 graduate of St. Charles High School and Morehead University and the University of Kentucky where he received degrees in English and Political Science.
During his working career Darrell was a radio broadcaster, a screen writer and worked for the newspaper in Crestwood. He also was a Paralympic wheelchair champion.
He was preceded in death by a brother-in-law, DeWayne McRay on May 11, 2006.
Survivors include three sisters, Mary Lou McRay of Springfield, Elaine Helm (John) of Lebanon and Dianne Buechlein (Wayne) of Paris, Illinois as well as nieces and nephews.
In keeping with Darrell's wishes cremation was chosen and a private service will be held later. Inurnment of his cremains will be in the St. Augustine Cemetery in Lebanon.
Contributions in memory of Darrell may be made to, Hosparus of Green River, 462 N. Bypass Road, Campbellsville, KY 42718.
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Patricia King
July 16, 2025
Rip Robert Ray me and my kids will miss you love Pat King and family.
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Pamela Shappell
June 26, 2025
I remember being in awe of how intelligent, funny and capable of accomplishing anything he set his mind to as he was growing up. His accomplishments in California and his wheelchair abilities were amazing. I am proud to have been a cousin of his. Pam Shappell
Nils
June 24, 2025
My deepest condolences to you the family of Darryl Ray. My Name is Nils Jorgensen and I knew your dear brother through his wheelchair racing participation years and his Quad Rugby playing years... Although I was a "Yankee" from the Boston area, we were very good friends and compadre's on regional and sometimes USA national teams...
I'm very sorry for your and the world's loss... He was one gem of a guy and he will be remembered fondly
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