Ronald J. Shamp

Ronald J. Shamp obituary, Rochester, NY

Ronald J. Shamp

Ronald Shamp Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Bartolomeo & Perotto Funeral Home, Inc. - Rochester on Dec. 30, 2025.
PARMA: December 29, 2025. Ron is predeceased by his parents, Carlos & Margaret Shamp; & son, James Shamp. Ron is survived by his wife, Pat (Patnode) Shamp; children, Kevin Shamp, Scott (Maria) Shamp, Kelly (Dave) Inclema; grandchildren, Jeremy (Kelly) Shamp, Scott (Allie Davis) Shamp, David (Danielle) Inclema, Jennifer Inclema, Brittany Shamp, Ashley (Paul) D'Eletto, Kristina Shamp, Alicia Shamp; 7 great-grandchildren; sister Grace Conte; many nieces, nephews & dear friends.

Ron's life story will be shared during his visitation at the funeral home, Tuesday, January 6th, 4-7 PM, 1411 Vintage Lane (Between 390 & Long Pond Rd.). His funeral mass will be celebrated, Wednesday, January 7th, 10AM at St. Lawrence Church, 1000 N. Greece Rd. Immediately following, Ron will be laid to rest in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Alzheimer's Association, 200 Meridian Centre Blvd., Suite 110, Rochester, NY 14618 in his memory.

Remembering Ronald J. Shamp

Ronald J. Shamp was born on April 1, 1936, in Rochester, New York, to Carlos and Margaret Shamp. He grew up surrounded by a large and lively family, one of eleven children, with seven sisters and three brothers-a background that shaped his deep appreciation for family, loyalty, and connection that stayed with him throughout his life.

Ron attended Monroe High School, where he played football and first met Patricia, the young woman who would become the love of his life. The two married in 1957, beginning a lifelong partnership rooted in devotion, teamwork, and shared values. Together, Ron and Pat raised four children-James, Kevin, Scott, and Kelly-who were always the center of Ron's world. Family was what mattered most to him, and raising his family was both his greatest joy and his greatest challenge, one he embraced with pride and determination.

As a young man, Ron served two years in the Army, developing the strong work ethic and no-nonsense attitude that would define him. He worked at Case Hoyt and later at The Villages at Park Ridge, earning a reputation as a hard worker who took pride in providing for those he loved. In his younger years, he carried a tough exterior, but beneath it was a generous heart, strong integrity, and a natural sense of humor.

Ron was known as a jokester-someone who joked with everyone he met. His warmth, humor, and lovable personality made people feel instantly comfortable, and it was often said that everyone loved Ron. He had a way of making people smile, whether through a quick joke, a familiar saying like "Watch your driving" or "Adios," or simply by being himself.

He loved the simple joys of life: bowling with his kids, golfing, hunting with family, and fishing in his younger years. He enjoyed bowling on TV, cowboy movies, and listening to his favorite music-Johnny Cash. He also cherished his pets, including his dogs Scarlet, Heidi, and Ginger, and his parakeet, Butchy, who were all very much part of the family.

Ron lived through and witnessed many defining moments in history, including the Korean War, the assassination of President John F. Kennedy, the Vietnam War, the civil rights movement marked by the loss of Martin Luther King Jr., and the tragedy of September 11, 2001. Through it all, his values of honesty, kindness, and family remained steady.

Ron and Pat enjoyed traveling together, especially to visit family out of state. Their adventures took them to Hawaii, Alaska, California, Nevada, Arizona, and Pennsylvania, creating lasting memories along the way. Ron also treasured his close friendships with George and Marge, Roberta and Don, Nancy and Jim, and Don and Cathy-friendships built on trust, laughter, and shared life experiences.

Those who knew Ron would describe him as happy, humorous, lovable, kind, honest, and full of life. One of the most remarkable moments of his life was saving a man's life-a true reflection of his character and courage.

Ronald J. Shamp's legacy is one of love, hard work, and unwavering dedication to family. He was the center of his family's world, a man people loved to visit, and someone who left a lasting impression on everyone he met. His life was defined not by grand gestures, but by everyday acts of love, laughter, and loyalty-qualities that will continue to live on through the family and friends who cherished him.

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Mike Lindner

January 6, 2026

It was always my privilege to provide care to your hubby . The visits were always "memorable" as your husband always kept interesting with his ever present sense of humor! And no, J haven´t gotten a deer yet!
Your husband´s ability to remain in a loving home was certainly made possible by your unwavering love and care. Something which we infrequently see these days.
May you and your family find comfort knowing Ton is at peace and no doubt looking for a good place to hunt!!
Mike Lindner,RN (formerly) VA HBPC

Thomas E Page jr

December 30, 2025

My deepest condolences to the Shamp family especially my Aunt Pat what a strong woman, my uncle Ron was quite the character he will be missed RIP.

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