Sandra Bonneau

Sandra Bonneau obituary

Sandra Bonneau

Sandra Bonneau Obituary

Published by Legacy on Aug. 30, 2025.
Sandra Bonneau (1967-2025)

Sandra (Toof) Bonneau, 58, Of Farmington, NH went home on August 22nd, 2025, to be with her mother, father and brother after a lengthy battle with cancer.

She was born on Aug 22nd,1967 in Dover, the youngest daughter of Arthur S Toof and Julia Toof. Sandra who always went by "Sandee" was a strong woman who fought cancer for 5 years, through those 5 years she had the love and support of her family and friends to help her through all the hard times. She was known as a hard worker with her time at Bellamy Fields before getting her certificate in Medical Office Administrative Assistant from Great Bay Community College and then going on to work with the amazing people at Marcam Associates. In her free time Sandee loved to spend time with her grandson Johnathan who she always called her "special little man", she also loved to spend time with her children on the weekends where all her grandchildren would come over and spend time with her. Sandee loved the Patriots, going to the beach, the pumpkin patch, the Deerfield fair and apple harvest fest, her favorite holiday was Christmas.

Sandra is predeceased by her father Arthur S Toof, Mother Julia Toof and her partner Johnny Von Husen and her brother David Toof, she will be joining them in heaven.

She is survived by her sisters, Patricia Mitchell and her husband Clyde, Linda Hancock and her husband Mark, her brother Arthur "Skip" Toof, and her sister-in-law Kathy Toof, her two children Matthew and Kayla Bonneau, her grandson Johnathan Bonneau, her partner Donald Carpenter, his 6 children and their spouses, Donald Carpenter, Stephanie and Dan Deshaies, Bridget and Jeff Lapanne, Michelle and Josh Goodin, Becky and Evan Thorsell and Josh Carpenter, her extended grandchildren Makayla and Arrianna Deshaies, Caitlyn, Lily and Sylvie Lapanne, Kylee and Sage Goodin, and Andrew Thorsell. Along with numerous nieces, nephews and friends.

At Sandee's request there will be no services. Donations to the Seacoast Cancer Center at WDH would be appreciated to honor Sandee. You can make a donation by going to https://giving.wdhospital.org/ and selecting seacoast cancer center or by mailing to:

FOUNDATION

Wentworth Douglass Hospital

789 Center Ave. , Dover NH 03820

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