Scott R. Gill

Scott R. Gill, 60, of Avon, CT, beloved husband to Kathleen (Randall), passed away on Tuesday, July 25, 2023, at Brigham & Women's Hospital, Boston, MA, after a courageous battle with pancreatic cancer. Born in Lansing, MI, son of Sheryl Gill (Tomc) of Onekama, MI and the late Gerald Gill, Scott was raised in Columbia, MD and Oreland, PA and earned his BS in Business Administration from Robert Morris University. Scott began his career with Reliance Surety Co. in 1985 and became the VP for the New England Region at the merger with Travelers. He was head of Field Management for Bond and Specialty Insurance for 12 years, and in 2012 was named Chief Operating Officer of Travelers International. Scott's colleagues knew him as a generous, kind, trusted, and selfless person always willing to offer his time or advice. He was known for his strong work ethic, his sense of humor, and his coaching and mentoring skills. As a confidante to many, Scott was often sought out for his counsel and problem-solving abilities. He was an exemplary role model and highly effective leader, always striving to bring out the best in everyone. Scott met Kathy, the love of his life, on a fortuitous blind date in Boston. The second date came soon thereafter, followed by dinners in the North End, ski trips to Killington, Celtics games, and weekend walks around the city. They were married for 27 beautiful years. Scott had many talents; he could fix anything and engineer a solution for any "project". He was a skilled chef who enjoyed cooking for a crowd with his motto being "go big or go home." Scott also enjoyed spending time outdoors--golfing, fishing, snow skiing, boating, and water skiing. He loved being around water, especially making s'mores on the shores of Lake Michigan, watching July 4th fireworks on Cobbetts Pond in NH, and fishing on Krouse Lake in Onekama. Holidays were special for Scott; he relished planning and cooking Thanksgiving dinner, spoiling his children on Christmas morning, and coming home early on Halloween to set up his elaborate graveyard display to the delight of his children (and the neighborhood). Above all, Scott's greatest pleasure was spending time with his family, cherishing his children's milestones and accomplishments and supporting his wife Kathy in all her endeavors. He imparted his values to Caroline and Brendan through many "dad coaching moments," encouraging them to work hard and strive for success, while still staying humble. He taught them how to ski and to fish, how to play soccer and golf, and most importantly how to "play in the sandbox." Many memorable family moments were spent at Red Sox games, Travelers Golf Championships, trips to Club Med, Mackinac Island, and Europe, and viewing sunsets on the lake. Scott valued his faith and was strengthened by it; he lived by example, setting high standards for himself and his children. He was a communicant of the Church of Saint Ann, an active member of Legatus, and a strong supporter of Catholic education. His good nature, infectious laugh, and generous heart will be dearly missed. Besides his wife Kathleen and mother Sheryl, he leaves his daughter Caroline M. Gill and his son Brendan G. Gill, both of Boston, MA; two brothers, Michael Gill (Donna) of Orlando, FL and Steven Gill (Stephanie) of Whitehall, MD. He also leaves his aunt and godmother, Judy Trinklein, of Onekama, MI, numerous brothers/sisters in-law, and many nieces and nephews. His family will receive friends on Friday, August 4, 2023, from 4-7 PM at the Carmon Funeral Home & Family Center, 301 Country Club Road, Avon. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Saturday, August 5, 2023, 10 AM at the Church of Saint Ann, 289 Arch Road, Avon. Burial will follow in St. Ann Cemetery. Contributions in Scott's memory may be made to the Church of Saint Ann where the Scott R. Gill Scholarship Fund will be established for Catholic education. For directions or condolences please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com.