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Scott Yox Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Buffalo News.
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Tracy Pease
November 24, 2008
Dear Scott,
I can honestly say there hasn't been a time in the past 40 years since our families blended that I haven't felt blessed to have known you. I've always hated putting the word “step” before brother when talking about you. As far as I'm concerned you've always just been my brother. Time goes by so quickly. I can close my eyes and see you, me, Bill, and Tammy listening to music on that old record player in the basement, shoulder to shoulder at the dinner table eating your favorite hamburger stew, watching Sabres and Bills games, swimming in the backyard pool or just riding our bikes up and down the driveway as if it were yesterday.
Too quickly we all graduated and went our separate ways, became adults and began families of our own. I so admire the man you became....the husband....the father....the uncle. My brother.
You had such a tough time these past few years. I'm amazed at your positive attitude and great courage with all you had to endure. You have been my inspiration more than once. You have always had a very special place in my heart.....and you will remain there forever. I am truly honored to have you as my brother. I love you very much. I am grateful for the way you have touched my life.
Love Always, Tracy
Peggy Lynch
November 24, 2008
Dear Scott,
Your constant sense of humor, faith and love are beacons of light I will always see burning brightly as a reminder of our conversations and the memories of you shared by your Mom. On Angels' wings; I know you have traveled to a better place.
Peace and God Bless,
Peggy
Marilyn Pease
November 24, 2008
My dear Son,
Your valiant war with cancer is finally over and, indeed, you did WIN. Until we meet again, my memories will keep you with me.
Love, Mom
Debbie Fair
November 23, 2008
TO OUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY:
Please note the error on the date of the Service:
Scott's service will be held on Monday, November 24th
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Ken and Shawna Geil
November 23, 2008
Yox Family: We are sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you during this time of Sorrow.
Ken and Shawna Geil
Marilyn Wright
November 23, 2008
Thoughts and prayers are with the family... Dawn DeRoo
Jackie & Paul Pampalone
November 23, 2008
We are cousins of Mary and are very sorry for your loss. May you and you family be comforted by God during this time of sorrow.
Bill Yox
November 22, 2008
Scott and I are brothers, seperated only by career paths and one year of age. Otherwise, it was him and me, me and him. Scott went by so many names as we grew up as kids from south Buffalo, West Seneca and a few stops around Rochester, NY. Our grandpa Emil called me and Scott the german words "schabernacher" and "schuft" although I couldnt be sure thats how youd spell it, or who was who. It was always "Billy and Scotty" as kids. Our father called him "ash can", an affectionate variation of his middle name, Ashley. But I called him my brother, Scott, and later in life, a playful "Scotty boy" as brothers do, in exchange for his "Hey Billy boy" greeting I had come so accustomed to hearing. As our family expanded in later years, step sisters and a step brother easily called him brother, too. But many more people called him Yoxy or Yoxer or the Yoxster...and friend. Scott was the friend of most anyone who met him. Scott had a sweetness to him, much different than others I know. To use a simple analogy, if you were to look at me and Scott, you could compare it to collecting maple sap, that would be me to start with. But, boiling it down until you got rid of all impurities, it would become the sweetest golden syrup. That was Scott. He was just special.
Scott enjoyed his motorcycles, fishing and car shows. He was a diehard Bills and Sabres fan, but he had a few things he loved more than even his Ninja, Charger, Challenger or even the Beach Boys. He loved his family. Ashlee has grown up to be a beautiful, striking young lady. Arik, with his red hair, is his fathers son beyond a doubt, and his Dads golf partner. And into the last two or so years of Scotts life was his match made in heaven, his wife Nancy. I am convinced that Nancys love for Scott, along with his family, is why he was able to fight his cancer so well. I also am sure she added many days to his life. He was genuinely in love with his Nancy. Trust me on this, as a brother just knows these things. Those two just complimented each other, just as lovers do in your dreams.
The reason you can smile when you think of Scott is because he was happy. He was fun, always kidding and joking. When he and Nancy would spend long hours in a hospital waiting room, Scott, most likely in some discomfort if not pain, would all at once start posturing to Nancy, as though he were showing off his muscles, acting as though he were some super hero, just to cheer her up. Heres a guy who was in pain, making sure others were ok? Unbelievable!
Scott beat cancer, and Ill tell anyone that. Cancer is the devil, trying its best to overtake your body and your soul. Scott said no way. Scott had a strong faith in God...very strong. When cancer first called on Scott, it attacked his colon...and Scott gave some of it up and lived. When it came back, going after his lymph nodes, Scott had them removed, heck, he had more. Cancer even tried to take away his breath. Scott surrendered only a lung...he still had another. Cancer could not take away his spirit, nor could it get his heart. Scotts heart was too big to take. But, through his faith, Scott knew when it was time. He left his body behind, along with cancer and joined his Father in heaven. Scott left us in death with the same calmness and dignity he showed us all in life.
You will not likely find another man like my brother. I will cry because I will no longer hear his "Hey Billy boy" greeting. But I am a better person because of Scott. I will always love you Scotty boy.
Steve Pittman
November 16, 2008
Arik & Ashlee,
So very sorry to get the news just today about your Dad. Scott was not only the absolute best neighbor I have ever had; but a really good friend. The most important thing I learned from him(other than how to get my lawn mower running) was that having a positive attitude in the face of adversity is the best way to find peace in life.
Even though we have not stayed in touch since your relocation; I want you to know Arik that I think about you guys and Gretchen all the time. Your Dad made a lasting impression on me and I will remember him always. Feel free to get in touch with me if you need anything at all. Steve
Bob Westney
November 14, 2008
Seems all of us in the biotech industry know each other. We call it a "small industry". News of Scott's death quickly reached us, his former co-workers, from Florida to New Jersey. We all loved working with Scott, and we considered him our friend. We'll all miss him very much, and send our deepest sympathies to those he left behind.
Tina, Scott, and Alana Ingham
November 11, 2008
Scott was a great guy and even though the years and distance have been between us, we still have always considered him part of our family. We had a lot of great times and laughs throughout the years. Scott was a wonderful father to Ashlee and Arik and he will always be Alana's "Uncle Scott." He will truly be missed.
Pat Garrett (Payroll Dept Diosynth)
November 11, 2008
I am truly sorry for your loss. Scott was a great guy to work with. He was so happy and alive that it is hard to imagine him gone from us. He will be missed but I know that the kind of guy he was will leave many happy memories with those he loved most. May God bless his family and friends.
QUENITA AVERY
November 11, 2008
ALLOW GOD TO TAKE CARE OF SCOTT NOW, HE WILL BE MISSED BY MANY, HE HAS A JOB ALREADY PICKED OUT FOR HIM IN HEAVEN, MAY YOUR FAMILY REMEMBER THE GREAT TIMES, GOD BLESS
Marianne Ellis
November 10, 2008
Arik & Ashlee,
My deepest condolences for the loss of your dad. I remember him as a very special person with a wonderful sense of humor. You are both in my heart, my thoughts, and my prayers.
-Marianne Ellis (your mother's friend)
Traci Fagan
November 10, 2008
Scott was a wonderful guy with the best sense of humor -he will hold a place in my heart and will not be forgotten. For his bravery, I commend him.
My deepest sympathy for my niece, Ashlee and nephew, Arik - and that they remember all of the good times they shared with their dad.
Kevin Sackett
November 10, 2008
My best wishes to Scott's family. He was a great guy, and I am glad that I knew him.
Stephen Perry
November 10, 2008
Dear Friends and Family,
Scott was a great co-worker; he made my time at Covance/Diosynth memorable, fun and productive. This is a great loss and I am very saddened by the news. Scott's loving memory will live on in each of us he touched.
Sincere condolences,
Stephen M. Perry (Covance/Diosynth 2000-2003)
Gene Stoeckley
November 10, 2008
Scott was a great guy to work with, helpful and congenial. Surely he will be missed by many.
Mike Jodoin
November 9, 2008
Scott,
A great guy and a real sportsman..you'll be missed.
Mike Jodoin
Tracy Pease
November 9, 2008
Dear Scott,
I can honestly say there hasn't been a time in the past 40 years since our families blended that I haven't felt blessed to have known you. I've always hated putting the word “step” before brother when talking about you. As far as I'm concerned you've always just been my brother.
Time goes by so quickly. I can close my eyes and see you, me, Bill, and Tammy listening to music on that old record player in the basement, shoulder to shoulder at the dinner table eating your favorite hamburger stew, watching Sabres and Bills games, swimming in the backyard pool or just riding our bikes up and down the driveway as if it were yesterday. Too quickly we all graduated and went our separate ways, became adults and began families of our own. I so admire the man you became....the husband....the father....the uncle. My brother.
You had such a tough time these past few years. I'm amazed at your positive attitude and great courage with all you had to endure. You have been my inspiration more than once. You have always had a very special place in my heart.....and you will remain there forever.
I am truly honored to have you as my brother. I love you very much. I am grateful for the way you have touched my life.
Love Always,
Tracy
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