Shirley Bennett Obituary
Shirley was employed with the Thruway Market in Walden for over 25 years. She belonged to several organizations including the Enterprise Steamer Ladies Auxillary of Walden, Walden Seniors, Silverado Steppers Line Dancing and delivered meals for Walden and Montgomery Nutrition sites.
She is survived by her loving daughter, Laurie Gesso; three wonderful sons, Jeffrey Weller (Linda), Lynn Weller (Louise) and Jay Weller (Cheryl); grandchildren, Neil Weller, Jamie Ringley (David), Lindsay Rizzo (Mike), Christina Sirois, JV Weller, Michael Gesso, Katelyn Pasquino (Frank), Lauren Mythen (John), Carolyn Frawley (Doug), great grandchildren, Isabella, Max, Savannah, Chase, Asher, Maelys, Jett, Eloise and Nicholas; as well as several nieces and nephews.
She was predeceased by her husbands, John N. Weller and Earl Bennett; sisters, Ruthann Kozlik (Charles) and Patricia Conception; brothers, Edward and Lewellyn Beardsley; son, John E. Weller; granddaughter, Jenna Weller; great grandson, Logan Weller; little dog Nickie who was the love of her life.
Memorial Contributions may be made to the Walden Humane Society 2489 Albany Post Road, Walden, NY 12586
Visitation will be held on Friday January 23, 2026 from 2-4 and 7-9 PM at the Gridley-Horan Funeral Home, Inc. 39 Orchard St. Walden, NY 12586 (845) 778-3811 gridleyhoran.com
Funeral Services will be held on Saturday January 24, 2026 at 11 AM at the funeral home.
Burial to follow services at the Wallkill Valley Cemetery, Rte 52 Walden, NY
Arrangements are entrusted to the Gridley-Horan Funeral Home, Inc 39 Orchard Street Walden, NY 12586 (845) 778-3811 gridleyhoran.com
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Dawn Kozlik-Evans
January 23, 2026
You were so loving, caring and attentive! Reminiscing when I was a little girl to date; your visits to Matlboro were so fun. You would bring pastries from Overlook Farms stand or your own delicious baked goods that you ALWAYS said you shouldn't have because you were watching your weight. You and Mom talking up a storm over coffee and your loving visits when I was sick. Mom and I visiting you at your lunch break at the Thruway. I was always excited when we all were going to Aunt Shirley's house! I kept asking in the car,"Are we there yet?" I was filled with anticipation then. When I saw the silo sitting low in my seat looking out car window we were getting closer. Family vacations, holidays and events, miles stones you always showed your love and were always there. Your "wet naps" to check and clean my face so you could take a picture with your camera. You made specialized scrapbooks for everyone. You kept all cards and letters from everyone. You were always there and supportive for everyone always. Thats who you are. You were a strong example for sure e.g. dont let things get you down enjoy the good times, think good thoughts. I loved you telling stories about you growing up and when my cousins were babies and them growing up. I could listen for hours. I will miss our times and talks and rides to go to your grandchildrens games or just errands and to eat. Watching you watch the Yankees was great and our classic good bye waves on your front porch to visitors we would have come over when I was up from Florida. I always miss you saying: " Doesn't that just jar your preserves?" When you were just a bit frustrated.
Im so blessed you were in my life and I know many others feel the same.
I know your making your classic meals, cookies, zucchini bread and"Shirley cake" right now with a smile with all who went before you. My dear Aunt Shirley, I am doing our classic waving to you now. Love you and miss you Aunt Shirley. You will be missed by all.
Dawn Kozlik-Evans
3 hours ago
Robin Campbell
January 23, 2026
Rest in peace aunt Shirley
Janet puetz
January 22, 2026
RIP my beloved cousin Shirley,love and will miss you. Your cousin Janet Puetz
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Robin Campbell
January 22, 2026
My deep condolences to the family. She was aunt Shirley to me! What a beautiful woman!!
Dawn Kozlik-Evans
January 22, 2026
Aunt Shirley, I will miss our outings to visit everyone. Playing cards, cooking, baking, and talks and dancing to country music in your kitchen. Laughing and loving I will cherish always.
All the love and condolences to my family, I love you all. Like Danny said: "Heaven sure got a good one".
Your niece,
Dawn
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