Shirley Jean Solomon

On 7-26-2024 I unexpectedly lost my mother, my only parent...my Shirley girl.

Shirley had been ill but not diagnosed until it was too late...two weeks later she was gone.

My mother was very specific in what she wanted and didn't want; she didn't want a service or an obituary, she didn't want a bunch of people informed of her passing. I've tried to honor her request but felt she deserved at least an in memoriam so that other people that knew and loved her would know.

Shirley Jean Solomon was born 8-11-1945 in El Centro, CA. third child to Ben II and Ruby Solomon (Keeling) and identical twin to Carol Ann.

Reared in El Centro and attending local schools, after the passing of her father the family moved to Pomona, CA where she would obtain an associate's degree in Criminal Justice from Chaffey College. Shirley later returned to El Centro where she would follow in her father's footsteps and become the first black female deputy with the Imperial County Sheriff's Department. A position she held for 22 years.

If you knew Shirley you know she could be sassy, funny and sweet. If she was fond of you she was sure to crochet a pillow or blanket for you or your newborn. Shirley loved crocheting, bingo, casinos, movies, a line dance and a good perfume. She could be very thoughtful and would do anything for the people she loved. I have many fond memories of my mother and if you knew her I hope you have some as well.

The day after my mother passed I began seeing monarch butterflies and still see them quite frequently. I like to think it's her saying hello. If you happen to see a monarch butterfly maybe it's Shirley saying hello to you too.

Shirley was preceded in death by her parents; Ben II and Ruby, twin sister Carol Ann and brothers; Steven, Ben III and Leslie.

Shirley is survived by her daughter Toia Brown, her furry granddaughter Stella (she'd laugh at this), her sister Devette, 7 nieces / nephews also great- nieces/nephews.

If you have persistently not felt well please don't allow your doctors to dismiss it, be an advocate for yourself and get a second opinion to get the care you need.

This photo is my favorite of my mother wearing a t-shirt I got for her for Mother's Day 2 years prior.

I miss my mother everyday. If you have a funny memory of Shirley please share it, I would love to hear it.