Dr. Spottswood Pryor Neale

1938 - 2020

Dr. Spottswood Pryor Neale obituary, 1938-2020, Valdese, NC

Dr. Spottswood Pryor Neale

1938 - 2020

Spottswood Neale Obituary

Published by Heritage Funeral Service & Crematory - Valdese on Mar. 18, 2020.
Dr. Spottswood Pryor Neale of Valdese, NC passed away on March 18, 2020 at his residence. He was born on May 6, 1938 in Richmond, Virginia. He was the son of the late Dr. Richard C. Neale, Sr. and Eva Whitehead Neale. In addition to his parents, he is preceded in death by his brothers, John Neale and James Neale, his sister, Diane Savig, and his sisters-in-law, Yvonne, wife of Dr. Richard Neale, Jr. and Emma, wife of John Neale. He is survived by his wife of 57 years, Margaret (Peggy) Heubeck Neale; children, David Neale, Dr. Christy Schenck and her husband Dr. Scott Schenck, and Jennifer Neale; grandchildren, Sarah, Rachel, Alex, Ashley, and Andrew Schenck; brothers, Dr. Richard C. Neale, Jr., Dr. Henry Neale and wife Margaret, Dr. Wirt Neale and wife Ginger; sisters, Beverly Johnson and husband Rev. Dr. Merwyn Johnson, Donna Kelly, and Vickie Peters and husband Zayne; Norman and Barbara Heubeck; and beloved cousins, nieces, and nephews. At the age of 13, Spottswood boarded a train from his home in West Virginia to the McCallie School in Chattanooga, Tennessee, where he received his high school degree. He entered Davidson College, from which he graduated in 3 years. He then attended the Medical College of West Virginia and completed his medical studies at the Medical College of Virginia. He graduated from medical school at the age of 21 and then completed 4 years of training in Pathology at Emory University in Atlanta and Moses H. Cone Memorial Hospital in Greensboro, NC. Spottswood practiced pathology in Camden, SC and later at Valdese General Hospital with his brother, Dr. Richard C. Neale, Jr. for 31 years. He dearly loved his family and his church, where he served as an Elder and Deacon and held many committee positions. Spottswood taught the adult Sunday school class for a number of years, and he especially enjoyed singing in the choir for the many years he was a member of the Waldensian Presbyterian Church. Spottswood was a member of the armed services as a flight surgeon in the USAF. He was stationed in Lackland AFB in San Antonio, Texas; Seymour Johnson AFB in Goldsboro, NC; and Eglin AFB in Eglin, FL. He served in Spain and Alaska in 1964 during one of the most devastating earthquakes in that state. Spottswood spent years attending and participating in his children's many activities, knowing that supporting his children during their formative years was an important part of being an involved parent. Knowing that, he also gave his employees that same opportunity whenever possible. He was a very caring and kind individual who treated each person as someone who mattered. He will be sorely missed by all who knew and loved him. He and his wife Peggy were very close and still in love with one another, and enjoying one another's company. They continued to share humor, which helped sustain them even through difficult times. He first introduced himself to Peggy as "Butch" and will forever be her beloved Butch. Because of the country's health concerns, a memorial service will be held at a later time at the Waldensian Presbyterian Church. A graveside service will be held on Saturday afternoon at 2:00, with military honors provided by the United States Air Force. An online guestbook and obituary is available at www.heritagefuneralservices.com. Heritage Funeral Service of Valdese is serving the Neale family. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the choir fund at the Waldensian Presbyterian Church, Burke Hospice (which provided invaluable services to the family), or any charity of choice.

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April 10, 2020

TOM EDWARDS posted to the memorial.

March 25, 2020

David Fletcher posted to the memorial.

March 23, 2020

Jane Perrou Pope posted to the memorial.

TOM EDWARDS

April 10, 2020

While students at McCallie, Butch and I were friends but most of our time together was due to sports programs.

Years later while attending McCallie's reunions my wife Bev and I had time together with Butch and his wife Peggy. They added us to their email address list, which was both informative and humorous.

We will miss Butch and hope Peggy keeps the emails coming.

Love to you both

Tom and Bev

David Fletcher

March 25, 2020

Dr. Neale was a tremendous person. I always admired him and enjoyed singing with him in our church choir. The family remains in our family's thoughts and prayers.

Jane Perrou Pope

March 23, 2020

I am so sorry about Spottswood. He was a very kind man. Always have great memories of singing with him in the choir at WPC. My dad thought the world of him. He will be mixed. Peggy. You and your family are in my prayers! Much Love

Marie McCain

March 21, 2020

I was so young when I knew him that it is hard for me to speak on personal knowledge. That being said, the outpouring of love and the comments I am seeing remind me that he was well loved and had a wonderful family and well lived life. My deepest condolences to the entire family. I have always found the words of the Gaelic Blessing to be comforting during times of profound loss. Please know that our family is praying for you during this difficult time and although recent world events prevent many from physically attending, we are lifting you up and rejoicing that he is reuniting in heaven with loved ones gone before.

Deep peace of the running wave to you
Deep peace of the flowing air to you
Deep peace of the quiet earth to you
Deep peace of the shining stars to you
Deep peace of the gentle night to you
Moon and stars pour their healing light on you
Deep peace of Christ the light of the world to you
Deep peace of Christ to you

Norman Heubeck

March 21, 2020

Our families have always been intertwined and made a tradition of going to Clearwater Beach each summer to visit Norm's and Peggy's parents. Butch always came as a willing participant although he might have preferred to have been on a golf course instead of the beach. He knew and lived the importance of family.

We all watched the parents grow older and our children mature on our annual outings. The cousins could see each other for an extended period of time each year. Those were golden times that Butch's active participation made even better. Butch was considered such a member of the family that one time, when Butch was lying on his back on the beach, Norm's and Peggy's mother gave Butch a raspberry on his stomach. Butch was really family.
We were with you all in spirit today. We loved Butch very much.

Love to you all,
Norm and Barb

Kimberly Rostan

March 21, 2020

I remember Dr. Neale's voice--not just his chancel choir voice, but his beautiful conversational tone. I can still hear it clearly when I think of him, and his laughter, too. Even as a child, he always made me feel as though I had said something important ....later, when I would return home from college, he asked me the most interesting questions and seemed delighted to hear about what I was reading and to fill me in on Duke basketball stats. I'm holding all of you close in my heart today.

Kristen Hess

March 21, 2020

Dr. Neale was very patient with all of us Girl Scouts invading your home for playdates and sleepovers! I love remembering you making us rice krispie treats and calling out to your sweet Butch. He was a kind soul and had a nice smile.
Much love to you, Peggy, Jennifer, David and Christy...all of the Neale family.
May God surround you with love.
-Kristen (Hart) Hess

Carolyn Neale Lindsey

March 20, 2020

I'm so sorry. I so enjoyed playing with him in Lanesville. Will write more later

Barbara/Dick Schafer

March 20, 2020

A wonderful, caring husband, father, grandfather, brother, physician, Christian, friend who left his mark on his world. He and Peggy fought the good fight for several years. God bless all that he touched---especially his beloved Peggy. God bless you---everyone. Dick and Barbara Schafer

Kristen Richardson

March 20, 2020

Mrs. Neale, children, grandchildren, and family: I had the privilege of meeting Spottswood on a mission trip to Lithuania. He was a delightful person, hard worker, and never failed to make me laugh! He participated in the work to convert a Soviet Army "recruiting" center (train stop before Siberia) into a Methodist church in Birzai, Lithuania. I have a great picture of him, in full protective (medical) gear, sanding down the sheetrock in the upstairs of the church. I always smile when I think of that trip, our time as teammates, and what wonderful folks God has placed in my path over the years. May God bless you and keep you all, and may your memories make you smile.

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