Stacey Sofka

Stacey Sofka obituary, Middletown, NY

Stacey Sofka

Stacey Sofka Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Applebee-McPhillips Funeral Home, Inc. - Middletown on Mar. 5, 2024.
Stacey Sofka
Stacey was born on January 11, 1969 in Binghamton, New York, and most recently resided at the ArchCare at Ferncliff Nursing Home and Rehabilitation Center. Stacey passed away on February 26, 2024 after battling a long illness.
Surviving family members include her aunt, Nonie Kelley; cousin Kelley O'Neill with husband Cory and son Brooks; cousin, Justin Jacob with wife Ashley and their children Wyatt, Abbey and Luca; Uncle John Kelley with his wife Darrice, Cousin Matt Kelley (Megan) and their children Aislyn and Teagan; cousin David Kelley; cousin Scott Kurey (Stacey) and his children, Matt, Melissa and Megan and their families. She is also survived by her uncle, Raymond Jacob with Donna Discostanzo. Stacey was predeceased by both of her parents, Jean Kelley and Edward Sofka.
Stacey was born in Binghamton and was raised in Orange County, NY. She spent most of her adult life living in Albany, NY, New York City and Los Angeles, CA. Stacey was a passionate world traveler and teacher. Her favorite locations to visit were Japan, Italy, Greece, South Africa, South Korea, Brazil, and Thailand. A top life moment for her was meeting Nelson Mandela! Stacey loved music, cooking, reading and soaking up culture. She was affectionate, had a great sense of humor, often saying her trademark comments such as "shenanigans" and frequently greeted people with a friendly fist bump. She always expressed her love for her family and friends. She was cherished by many, was loved very much and will be missed greatly.
A memorial visitation will be held at Applebee McPhillips Funeral Home on Friday, April 5, 2024 from 2:00 PM to 4:00 PM.
In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to the ArchCare at Ferncliff Nursing Home and Rehabilitation Center, Neurodegenerative Unit, 21 Ferncliff Drive, Rhinebeck NY 12572 or the Huntington's Disease Society of America (HDSA).
Arrangements are under the direction of Applebee-McPhillips Funeral Home, 130 Highland Avenue, Middletown, NY 10940.

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Denise McOsker

June 17, 2024

Stacey and I were housemates in college. She was one of my very best friends during that time and for a few years afterward before we lost touch. She was brilliant, HILARIOUS, and beautiful inside and out. With the knowledge that her life may be cut short, she always wanted to live purposefully and for the good. She was very dedicated to helping the causes of marginalized people. I loved her very much and know that if there is a heaven.... she's having a dance party, for sure.

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