Stanley Matthew Benenhaley

Stanley Matthew Benenhaley obituary, Sumter, SC

Stanley Matthew Benenhaley

Stanley Benenhaley Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Elmore-Cannon-Stephens Funeral Home and Crematorium on Feb. 6, 2024.
Stanley M. Benenhaley, 93, widower of Melissa Ann Ray Benenhaley, died Sunday, February 4, 2024, at his home.
Born April 7, 1930, in Sumter, he was a son of the late Jesse Noah Benenhaley and the late Emma Oxendine Benenhaley. Mr. Benenhaley was a member of Springbank Baptist Church. He served in the U.S. Air Force and was a veteran of the Korean War. He retired from Shaw Air Force Base Civil Service after 31 years. He enjoyed hunting and watching the Atlanta Braves and P-15's Baseball.
Survivors include three children, Janis Stiltner, Michael Benenhaley, and Bobby D. Benenhaley (Shanna); five grandsons, Chris Benenhaley (Starr), Matthew Benenhaley (Jennifer), Justin Okonek, Cameron Benenhaley, and Colton Benenhaley; six great grandsons, Alex Benenhaley, Anthony Benenhaley, Cory Benenhaley, Chaz Benenhaley, A.J. Green (Jasmine), and Alonzo Green; and a number of nieces and nephews.
In addition to his wife, he was preceded in death by a son, Terry Lynn Ray.
Funeral services will be held at 3 p.m. Friday at Springbank Baptist Church officiated by the Rev. Steve Miller. Burial will be in the church cemetery.
Pallbearers will be Colton Benenhaley, Cameron Benenhaley, Chris Benenhaley, Anthony Benenhaley, Frank Delgado, and Matthew Benenhaley.
Honorary pallbearers will be Tommy Vanliew, Gerry Vanliew, Harold Benenhaley, Rick Cox, David Carter, Larry Hood, Mark Kovalcik and Ronnie Benenhaley.
The family will receive friends from 2 to 3 P.M. Friday at Springbank Baptist Church and other times at the home.
Memorials may be sent to the American Cancer Society or the American Heart Association.
Elmore-Cannon-Stephens Funeral Home and Crematorium of Sumter is in charge of the arrangements.

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Nita@Tony Newbern

February 9, 2024

I remember him always going to the p15s baseball game. And he loved to watch wrestling just like his brother Daniel. (My father) we will all miss him very much. And will never forget him. Love you Uncle Stanley. Love Nita and Tony.

American Heart Association

February 8, 2024

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

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