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Stephanie was born on January 24, 1998, in Ft. Worth, TX. Stephanie was a bright light, and was an incredibly strong woman. She was selfless, had a huge heart, and left a lasting impact on everyone she met.
Stephanie is survived by: mother, Marsha Mauk of Ponca City,OK; her father, Bryan DeFoor and his wife, Lisa, of Muskogee, OK; sisters, Taylor DeFoor of Springfield, MO, Isabella Bailey and her husband, Dakota, of Ponca City, OK, Susan Shriner and her mother, Carolyn Dewey; brother, Jacob DeFoor of Ponca City, OK; nieces and nephews, Rowdy and Dawson Bailey of Ponca City, OK, Chloe and Sophia Wininger; aunts and uncles, Valerie DeFoor Scenters and her husband, Anthony, of Muskogee, OK, Debbie Loch and her husband, Alan, of Perkins, OK, Jimmy Mauk and his wife Brenda of Ponca City, OK, Diana Weaver of Dallas, TX; her loving fur babies, Brindle, Priscilla, Theo, and Luna; numerous cousins, other family members, and many friends.
Stephanie is preceded in death by: her husband, Stephen Tolland, Jr.; grandparents, Jim and Ann Mauk, and Ray and Bettye DeFoor; and aunt, Linda Mauk Muegge.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Diabetes Association, P.O. Box 7023, Merrifield, VA 22116-7023.
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