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STEPHEN P. ENDLAR

1935 - 2024

STEPHEN P. ENDLAR obituary, 1935-2024, Belmont, MA

STEPHEN ENDLAR Obituary

ENDLAR, Stephen P. A devoted family man, Stephen died peacefully on January 25, 2024. He was 88 years old. Stephen was born March 17, 1935 in Brookline, MA to Lester and Josephine Endlar. He and his brother, Richard, grew up in Brookline in a happy, active household. He made life-long friendships at Shady Hill School, Milton Academy and Harvard University. After graduation in 1956, Steve married the love of his life, Alberta (Cohen) Endlar in 1957. He had a 50 year career in wealth management at GH Walker, Abraham & Sons, Lehman Brothers, Smith Barney, and Moors and Cabot. During his younger years, he could be found playing squash after work at the Harvard Club. Steve was happiest gathering the people he loved around his favorite pastimes, for a meal or for a holiday. He had a great love of the outdoors and traveled the world to ski and golf with family and friends. In retirement, during the summer, he could be found playing golf or meeting grandchildren at Belmont Country Club. In the winter, he spent many years hosting the whole family at his home in Sugarbush, VT where all four grandchildren learned to ski - a gift they will have forever. As a parent and grandparent, he spent many years as an avid family supporter at a myriad of rinks, fields, courts and courses. As a parent at the Skating Club of Boston, he was always at the rink and was known for hosting great parties after ICE CHIPS for his daughters. When his grandchildren arrived and played competitive sports, he and Alberta never missed a soccer, lacrosse, squash, baseball or hockey game - rain or shine. In addition to his beloved wife, Alberta, Steve is survived by his brother, Richard Endlar; daughters, Leslie (Richard) Zetlin and Laurie (Michael) Lee; four grandchildren, Derek (Renee) Zetlin, Samantha (Joe) Fruci, Jessica Lee, and Jeffrey Lee; and three great grandchildren, Palmer & Sloane Zetlin and Zachary Fruci. He will be missed by everyone. Funeral services will be private. Shiva will be observed at Belmont Country Club on Sunday January 28th from 1:30-4:30pm. Minyan will be at 3:30pm. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation by check to the Belmont Fireman's Relief Association P.O. Box 79222, Belmont, MA 02478.

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Published by Boston Globe from Jan. 25 to Jan. 26, 2024.

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Michael Healey

February 9, 2024

So sorry to hear of Stephen´s passing. He was always so welcoming and warm every time we were together. My thoughts and prayers go out to all.

Sincerely

James Kohn

February 1, 2024

Stephen Endlar was a man of great emotion and energy. He surrounded himself with friends and family and will be missed by all of those whose life he touched. We all share the loss but remember his Legacy with more than a smile!

James Kohn

Dexter Lewis

January 31, 2024

Dear Alberta,
I just learned of Steve's death and am devastated. We were talking on
the phone a few weeks ago. Since my dear Dawn died recently, I had
talked with Steve often.
We were in close touch over the years and I value this long friendship.
Whenever I got to Boston, I would try to meet with Steve and Alberta.
Please accept my sincere condolences,Alberta, on your loss. Steve was a good friend and will be missed by so many.
Dexter

Ed Seltzer

January 31, 2024

Ed Seltzer. Wonderful memories. Good friend.

JP Goldsmith

January 30, 2024

So sorry to hear of Stephen´s passing. He was truly one of the good guys. He was always so nice and accommodating to me. He was even my sponsor in joining Belmont so was instrumental in my meeting my wife, Hope. Hope and I extend our sincere conduct to Alberta and the entire Endlar family.

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Thomas Healy

January 26, 2024

Dear Alberta my deepest sympathy on the passing of you're husband.he was a great guy and enjoyed my conversations with him when I worked at e.m.loews theaters. Sincerely tommy healy em Loews theaters 1977 to 1982.

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