Stephen S. Scarboro

Stephen S. Scarboro obituary, Rochester, NY

Stephen S. Scarboro

Stephen Scarboro Obituary

Visit the Thomas Funeral Chapels - Rochester website to view the full obituary.

Stephen S. Scarboro, a cherished son, brother, father, and friend, peacefully departed this world on November 19, 2025, in Rochester, New York, at the age of 56. Born on August 30, 1969, in Clearwater, Florida, Stephen embraced life with a heart full of kindness and an unwavering desire to bring joy to those around him.

Throughout his life, Stephen was defined by his generous spirit. He was always willing to make everyone around him happy, often going out of his way to lend a helping hand or share a warm smile. His home was a sanctuary of love and warmth, most notably during holiday seasons when he would prepare his famous hot spaghetti, a dish that became a beloved tradition for family and friends alike. These gatherings were not just about food; they were celebrations of togetherness, laughter, and the bonds that tied them all together.

An avid gamer and superhero lover, Stephen found joy in adventures both virtual and imaginative. His enthusiasm for these hobbies brought him closer to his son, Dillian Stadtmiller, as they shared countless hours immersed in epic quests and heroic sagas. Stephen's playful spirit and infectious laughter echoed through every room, leaving indelible memories in the hearts of those who knew him.

In addition to his role as a father, Stephen was a devoted uncle to Juellianna and Brandon Stadtmiller, whose lives he touched profoundly. His brothers, Ira, Morgan, and James Scarboro, shared a unique bond with him, filled with camaraderie and tender moments that will linger in their hearts forever.

Laura Stadtmiller, his best friend, stood by Stephen through thick and thin, cherishing a friendship that epitomized loyalty and love. Together, they navigated life's challenges, reveling in moments of joy and providing solace in times of need.

As we remember Stephen, we celebrate a life filled with compassion, warmth, and unrivaled laughter. His legacy will live on in the love he shared, the memories he created, and the lives he touched. Though he may have left us physically, the essence of Stephen S. Scarboro will forever remain in our hearts.

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