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Tammy Gray Obituary
Tammy worked in the Spotsylvania County Public Schools for many years. She started on the custodial team at Spotsylvania High School where many memories and people are still dear to heart and had the pleasure to be the ISS teacher at Massaponax High School for the last couple of years where she was well loved by students and staff and the feeling was definitely mutual. She was looking forward to seeing another group walk across the stage on May 17th. Make her proud, class of 2025!
She is survived by her daughters, Stephanie (Ray) and Brittany (Chris); granddaughter Cheyenne McAllister; brothers Jay Showers (Julie) and Billy Showers (Nikki); brothers-in-law Randy (Yvonne) and Chris (Brittani); mother-in-law Nancy Gray; several nieces and nephews whom she adored; and Granny Tanny to Hudson and Ryleigh; Brad (Virginia), Tory (Anthony), Megan and Lillie-Jane; and all of her other bonus children that she has gained over the years. Tammy was preceded in death by her loving husband of 32 years, Robert "Bobby" Gray; her parents, John Showers, Sr. and Rose Showers; and nephew Kaleb Showers.
The daughters of Tammy would like to extend a huge thank you to Dee and Margie from Massaponax High School for everything that they have done and continue to do so in this difficult time.
The family will receive friends from 4 to 6 p.m. on Friday, May 16, 2025 at Covenant Funeral Service, Fredericksburg.
10830 Patriot Hwy, Fredericksburg, VA 22408
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