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Terry Graves Obituary
Terry is survived by his loving daughters, Crystal L. Graves and Tiffany M. Graves; grandchildren, Owen, Mary-Jane, Cynthia and Conner, Blake, Grant, Lilly and Maverick; mother, Bonnie (Graves) Bendschneider; brothers, Thomas and Rodney Bendschneider; sister, Melody Poyneer; and several nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews.
Terry was a mechanic out of school for Phoenix Central and later retired from Oswego County BOCES after many years of service. He ran JEEP's Towing service for many years. Terry was also a lumberman for many years. He enjoyed dirt-car racing, NASCAR, fishing and he loved to stay busy and tinker around with anything that had a motor. He was a loving son, father, brother, grandfather and uncle who will be sorely missed by all who loved and knew him.
As per Terry's wishes, there will be no calling hours. A celebration of life will be held at a later date to be announced. To leave a special message for the family, please sign the guestbook.
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