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1940
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2025
Terry Kilmer Obituary
September 28, 1940 - July 6, 2025
PORT BYRON - Terry Kilmer, 84, of Port Byron, NY passed away peacefully at St Joseph's Hospital after a short illness. Terry was a lifelong resident of Port Byron and attended Port Byron School. He was employed with Conrail Railroad for many years. After he retired, Terry enjoyed fishing, traveling with his wife, Joan, and tinkering with his tractors.
Terry was predeceased by wis wife Joan, his parents, Mary and Fred Kilmer, and his sister Sharon Kilmer. He is survived by his twin brother, Gerald "Duke" Kilmer and brother, George Kilmer; his daughter, Kelly (Mike) Laird; son, Terry Kilmer; stepdaughter, Pamela (John) Grzasko; stepson, Russell (John) Stoneburg; grandchildren, Michael Laird, Erica Laird, Matthew Driscoll, and Rachel Kilmer. He is also survived by many great-grandchildren, nieces, and nephews.
Per Terry's wishes, there will not be a service. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Port Byron Fire Department.
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Laurie A Dymock
July 10, 2025
Duke and George sorry to hear about Terry. The picture he looks like Aunt Mary in the face.
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