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Thomas M. Aidala, Jr., 45, died peacefully on March 15, 2023, at Western Reserve Hospital in Cuyahoga Falls.
Born in Akron on March 24, 1977, to Thomas Sr. and Therese Aidala, Tom was a lifelong resident of Summit County. He was a 1995 graduate of North High School and briefly attended the University of Akron before joining the City of Cuyahoga Falls as a substation electrician. Tom took immense pride in his role with the City and found great satisfaction, first in learning from his mentors, and then in teaching his successors. He retired in the summer of 2022 after 24 years with the crew.
Tom was preceded in death by his grandparents, as well as his uncle Tony Gillespie. He is survived by his devoted wife Rachel (Mesek) Aidala; parents, Tom Sr. and Therese; brother Paul (Royal); sister Adrianne Tomlinson (Chris); mother-in-law Elaine Mesek; sister-in-law Erin Frazee (Tim); nephew Aaron Aidala and nieces Avery and Addison Aidala and Lennon Frazee. He is also survived by numerous aunts, uncles, and cousins, as well as scores of cherished friends.
Husband, son, brother, uncle, nephew, cousin, friend, and mentor: Tom will live forever in our hearts, and his unmistakable laugh will not be soon forgotten. Tom's love, loyalty, compassion, and courage knew no limits.
The family wishes to thank the truly compassionate doctors and nurses of the ICU at Western Reserve Hospital for their care of our Tom.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11:00 on Thursday, March 23, at St. Sebastian Catholic Church, 476 Mull Avenue, Akron. The burial following the Mass will be at Chestnut Hill Memorial Park, 2613 Sackett Avenue, Cuyahoga Falls.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests a memorial contribution to the Oak Clinic for Multiple Sclerosis, 3838 Massillon Road, Suite 360, Uniontown, Ohio 44685.
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Morgan Younce
March 24, 2023
I´ve known Tom as my uncle for as long as I can remember. I was so sad to hear of his passing and I´ll miss him a lot. He was such a fun person and always kept us laughing. My condolences to his wife and family. I´m so happy that he had a great support system.
Lynne Benek
March 23, 2023
I am so very sorry for the lost you feel at this time. Praying for the family.
Love, Ron and Micki Sprosty
March 19, 2023
We pray that God will grant you and your family the strength you and your family need to get through this difficult time. Our heartfelt sympathy to you and yours at this sad time.
Cathy (Snyder) Campbell
March 18, 2023
Tom, Theresa, Paul and Adrianne: I am so, so sad to hear about Tommy's death. My mind was flooded with memories of him spending time with Greg and Matt at our house. Please know you are in my prayers. I am not able to be with you on Thursday. I am so sad for all of you.
Cathy Snyder
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Sandie Britt
March 18, 2023
Tommy, you are literally one of my absolute favorite humans. I am so grateful to had been a part of your life and I will never ever forget your kindness, humor, and amazing hugs. You're free now - you go fly, brother, and we will all see you again soon.
Megan
March 18, 2023
Oh Rachel! I'm just heart broken for you. Tom will certainly be missed.
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