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Loving husband of Gayle, father of Michael (Vanessa) Antonetti, Alyson (Ben)Swetland, best Papa to Amelia, Lyla, Luke and Evan. Brother to Michael (d. Jay), James and many nieces and nephews.
Tom was preceded in death by his parents, Michael & Alice Antonetti (Hayes).
Tom loved his family and we loved him. Tom’s family, traveling, cooking and football in that order were his favorite things. He had a wonderful sense of humor and loved telling jokes especially with an Irish brogue. His career with AT&T spanned 43 years. Tom was a loyal friend to many and was always willing to lend a helping hand.
Family will receive friends at Kurtz Memorial Chapel, 65 Old Frankfort Way, Frankfort IL 60423 on Thursday, October 9th, 2025 from 3:00 PM until 8:00 PM. Funeral service, Friday, October 10th, 2025 at 10:00 AM at the funeral home. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers please consider donating to CurePSP.
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