Thomas Costello

Thomas Costello obituary, Naples, FL

Thomas Costello

Thomas Costello Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Beachwood Society - Naples on May 2, 2022.

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Thomas J. Costello passed peacefully on Tuesday, April 29th, surrounded by his family. Born in 1939 to Thomas and Julia Costello, Tom was raised in Brooklyn with his siblings Ann Marie, Helen, John, Margaret, Sheila and Kevin. In 1959 Tom was ordained a Redemptorist priest and served with the order for
over a decade. Tom then served as Personnel Officer for Ulster County, NY for nearly 25 years. Life after retirement included jobs such as ski instructor, after school program coordinator, limo driver and volunteer chaplain. Tom was married to Sally Shields from 1984 until her death in 2017. Tom is predeceased by his parents, Thomas and Julia, his brothers John and Kevin and his twin sister Ann Marie. He is survived by his beloved fiancé and companion Patricia, his sisters Helen, Margie and Sheila along with many nieces,
nephews, great-nieces and nephews along with many friends. Tom had the Irish gift of gab and was a friend to everyone he met. He was a master storyteller and left us with many treasured, and possibly enhanced, tales from the past. He titled himself "Abuelo" and was so loving and patient and the
most amazing grandpa to his nieces and nephews of all ages. He planned many adventurous, fun outings for them. They thought Uncle Tommy was awesome and they were not wrong. A funeral mass is scheduled for Saturday, April 30 at 11:30am at St. Agnes Catholic Church in Naples, Florida. The family invites you to participate virtually if you desire. In lieu of flowers, please consider a charitable donation in his memory.

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Greg Melahn

March 8, 2023

Minutes ago, I learned of Tom´s passing. My wife Sue and I were deeply saddened.

I worked with Tom in the 80´s, serving as the Deputy Personnel Officer for Ulster County. Tom was so very kind to me and my family. When my infant daughter needed surgery and I had no way to get to New York City Tom kindly lent me his car for several days without me even needing to ask. When I needed flexible work hours so I could complete my college degree Tom graciously allowed me to adjust my schedule as I needed. There were many other kindnesses that Tom showed me and my family over the years. I miss him.

I am glad to see that Tom and Sally had a fun and fulfilling retirement.

Michael and Carol Prevost

February 3, 2023

We are just learning of Tom´s passing and are saddened. We met Tom while he was in the process of retiring to Lake Placid, NY. A wonderful man with unlimited compassion, and yes, always an entertaining story. When Tom and Sally left Lake Placid, we were able to visit when they first moved (in fact we drove their car from Lake Placid to Naples for them) and then again to see Tom in 2020 when we were visiting the area. COVID cut our visit short, but we had a wonderful dinner together and were able to visit his home. We were blessed to have had that extra time with him and hear even more incredibly entertaining stories. We are certain he also had a million questions upon arriving in Heaven! He will be missed.
Michael and Carol Prevost, The Adirondacks, NY

Mary Connolly

July 16, 2022

Sorry for your loss.

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