Thomas "Tommy" D'Ercole

Thomas "Tommy" D'Ercole obituary, Rochester, NY

Thomas "Tommy" D'Ercole

Thomas D'Ercole Obituary

Visit the New Comer Cremations & Funerals - Eastside Location website to view the full obituary.
Passed away suddenly February 25, 2024 at the age of 52.
Predeceased by his mother, Caroline & grandmothers, Mary Gonfiantini & Anna.
Survived by his father, Nazareno "Nano"; siblings, Bill (Karen), Pam (Kevin) Smith, Vinnie (Jody), & Joey; Chris Massaro, Shawna (Tom) Dioguardi, Victoria Massaro, & Nick; close friends, Glen & Kim; close family friend, Judy; & other family, & friends.
Special thank you to close family & friends.
Calling hours will be Tuesday March 5, 4-7pm at New Comer Cremations & Funerals, 6 Empire Blvd. Funeral mass the following day 10am at St. Ambrose Church.
Passed away suddenly February 25, 2024 at the age of 52.
Predeceased by his mother, Caroline & grandmothers, Mary Gonfiantini & Anna.
Survived by his father, Nazareno "Nano"; siblings, Bill (Karen), Pam (Kevin) Smith, Vinnie (Jody), & Joey; Chris Massaro, Shawna (Tom) Dioguardi, Victoria Massaro, & Nick; close friends, Glen & Kim; close family friend, Judy; & other family, & friends.
Special thank you to close family & friends.
Calling hours will be Tuesday March 5, 4-7pm at New Comer Cremations & Funerals, 6 Empire Blvd. Funeral mass the following day 10am at St. Ambrose Church.

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New Comer Cremations & Funerals - Eastside Location

6 Empire Boulevard, Rochester, NY 14609

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March 17, 2024

Liz Strong posted to the memorial.

March 3, 2024

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March 3, 2024

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Liz Strong

March 17, 2024

Tommy,

It's now been a few weeks and still feels unreal. There's things I keep wanting to tell and show you. I miss you so much.

Amber

March 3, 2024

You were definitely a unique character and I´m heartbroken to hear that you´re suddenly gone. I may be states away these days but I never forgot you and my other friends up in your corner of NY.

Stacy

March 3, 2024

My deepest condolences to you, there´s nothing worse than a sudden absence from your life. Please reach out if you need anything.

A. Bailey

March 2, 2024

You had a unique perspective on the world and how you fit within it. Your insights and approach to things were enlightening and had a far greater impact on others than you knew. You were a gentle light in this world, one that nurtured many.

~Bailey

KLinn

March 2, 2024

Tommy - My heart is shattered and I still can´t believe this is real. I will always remember your texts and messages and how often you checked in on me, and shared your personal thoughts and experiences. We had so much in common - and I regret not meeting up with you the week before for lunch. I´ll still be talking to you each day - just in a different way. I hope you knew how much I cared for you and appreciated our friendship. Til we meet again. Xo

PK

March 1, 2024

My heart aches knowing you´ve been taken from this world so suddenly. I know deep down you are at peace and being held tightly in your mother´s arms. You will always hold a special place in my heart and you will forever be missed.

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