Thomas F. "Tim" Plummer, Jr.

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Thomas F. "Tim" Plummer, Jr.

Thomas F. "Tim" Plummer, Jr. Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Ruffenach Family Funeral Homes - Drexel Hill on Mar. 18, 2025.

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Thomas F. "Tim" Plummer, Jr.
1936 - 2025
Thomas F. "Tim" Plummer Jr. died peacefully surrounded by family on March 9th, 2025. He was born in 1936 in the city of Nashville, Tennessee, and spent his final years at Riddle Village in Media, Pennsylvania. Tim graduated from Nether Providence High School in 1954, and the U.S. Military Academy at West Point in 1959. He went on to serve 20 remarkable years with the United States Army and retired as a Lieutenant Colonel in 1979.
Tim's illustrious military career was adorned with honors, including the Legion of Merit, the Distinguished Flying Cross for Heroism, and the Meritorious Service Medal. He was a four-time Bronze Star Medalist and received the Air Medal of Valor six times. His awards also include the Army Commendation Medal for Valor, the United Nations Peacekeeping Medal for service in the Palestine/Yom Kippur War, and the Cross of Gallantry from Vietnam.
His adventurous spirit took him across the globe, with overseas assignments in Australia, Egypt, Thailand, Laos, the former Soviet Union, and two separate tours in Vietnam. In his early career Tim taught geography at West Point, where he co-authored an atlas on the Soviet Union, now archived in the Library of Congress. He held a master's degree from the University of Illinois and attended the Advanced Management Program at Harvard Business School before embarking on a successful career in senior executive roles across various companies. After retiring in 1998, he spent his time fly fishing, serving the Rose Valley Borough, visiting grandchildren at the beach, and writing his memoir, Unnecessary Risks. He always welcomed friendly swimming competition and counted laps daily year-round.
Tim was a born leader. He served Rose Valley first as Borough Council Controller, then President of the Rose Valley Borough Council, and next as Mayor for 13 years. He was instrumental in registering historical landmarks with the Department of the Interior and founded the Rose Valley Centennial Foundation. Tim played a role in housing the Rose Valley Museum at the Thunderbird Lodge.
A devoted member of St. John Chrysostom Roman Catholic Church in Wallingford, Pennsylvania, Tim embodied a life of faith and service. He was the son of the late Thomas and Sibyl Fahnestock Plummer of Wallingford, PA, and he was predeceased by his son George H. Plummer and his beloved wife of 55 years, Kathleen Kaufman Plummer.
Tim is survived by his loving wife, Margee Hanford Plummer, and his children: Thomas F. Plummer III of Purcellville, Virginia; Eve Samuel of St. Louis, Missouri; and Christopher Plummer (Cynthia) of Richmond, Virginia. He also leaves behind cherished grandchildren, Clare Bengtson (Erik) and Sierra Plummer, his sister, Mary Atkins (Gordon), and brother, Holbrook Plummer (Karen).
A funeral mass celebrating Tim's life will be held at St. John Chrysostom Church in Wallingford, Pennsylvania, on April 12th, 2025 visitation from 9 am - 10:45 am, 11 am mass to follow. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to the Rose Valley Centennial Foundation, with "Tim Plummer Endowment Fund" noted in the memo section, or St. John Chrysostom Church's Good Samaritan Fund.
Tim Plummer's legacy of adventure, love, and service will forever inspire all who had the privilege of knowing him. We will miss him greatly and hope to honor his memory with continued devotion to the service of our communities and the world around us. May he rest in Peace.
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Ben Davidson

August 13, 2025

I only just learned of Tim's passing. I had meant to write to him for the better part of a year, and I deeply regret letting time slip away. Tim took a chance on me when I was just out of college, and he never knew that his willingness to give me a shot led me to what has become a career in historic preservation and restoration. I wish I had taken the time to let him know how much his kindness and confidence meant to me; I hope my heartfelt prayers reach him.

Carol C Mayone

April 11, 2025

Margee and all those who loved Tim,
Heartfelt sympathy at this sad and difficult time. We were proud to call him our friend. He will be missed at SEAMIST!
Love and prayers,
Carol and Andy Mayone

Michael Toler

April 8, 2025

Speaking for the officers and men of the 4th Training Battalion, US Army Field Artillery Training Center, Fort Sill, OK and the hundreds of West Point Cadets who were privileged to have had Colonel Plummer as an instructor or commanding officer, the Nation has lost a great man and his family a great father, husband, and grandfather. When Senator David McCormick and his wife wrote the new book "Who Believed in You: How Purposeful Mentorship Changes the World, " I immediately thought of Tim Plummer, "Big Red," as his admiring officers referred to him. Other than GEN Norm Schwarzkopf, I know of no other man who by his mere presence gave you a sense of greatness. LTC Plummer was then Captain Toler's inspiration and mentor, actually for many years, becoming a dear friend in our later years. Who else in our Army ever commanded an elephant drawn Artillery battery? (Thailand), or became best friends with a Soviet officer who saved his life in Egypt during the Cold War, or who built the 2nd largest atomic cyclotron as a cadet in 1958? Tim Plummer created for the entire US Army the method for teaching soldiers individual skills (demonstrate-practice-test to standard-conduct failure analysis-retrain). When he declined promotion to Colonel, everyone at Fort Sill knew he was the best Battalion Commander. Tim the professional Soldier encouraged a Captain recently passed-over for promotion by writing a glowing OER and having his boss the Field Artillery Training Center Commander endorse his recommendation for immediate promotion? I lived my boyhood dream as a Soldier in our Army for 31 years, as a direct result of that man caring about and inspiring me. God blessed us with this giant of a man, whom I am proud to say I knew and loved. Sad that he has passed from this life to find certain life after death.

Gail Schrenk

April 6, 2025

To Tim's family, he was such a huge presence in Rose Valley Borough and in the Rose Valley Folk. Larger than Life. Always a gentleman. A smile and kind word whenever he spoke. What a legacy of service and leadership he leaves behind. How fortunate that you had such a role model for a father, grandfather and that we had the same in a friend.

With much love and prayers for your peace and comfort. Gail Schrenk

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Andre Libert

March 28, 2025

To Margee, Tom, Eve & Chris,

Norma & I send our deepest condolences upon the loss of Tim, along with some wonderful memories of weeks in Avalon during the summer; bright days on Block Island; skiing in VT and everyday living in Fairfield, CT. Tim leaves us with his ever-present sense of love of Jesus the Christ, his family, friends and others he loved so much.

Norma & Andre Libert

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