Thomas A. Schwendeman

Thomas A. Schwendeman obituary, Oxford, PA

Thomas A. Schwendeman

Thomas Schwendeman Obituary

Visit the Grieco Funeral Home & Crematory, Inc. website to view the full obituary.

Thomas Alan Schwendeman, age 95, of Oxford, Pennsylvania, passed away on September 2, 2025, at Ware Presbyterian Village in Oxford, PA. He was the husband of Frances (Kinsey) Schwendeman, with whom he shared over 73 years of marriage. Born in Newark, DE, he was the son of Irvin Schwendeman and Phoebe (Malin) Schwendeman.

Tom was a graduate of Kennett High School.  He spent 30 years working for the Bell Telephone Company. After retiring, he drove a school bus for the Kennett School District and spent time driving commercial tour buses.

He served our country in the Army during the Korean War.

He was a member of Kennett Square Presbyterian Church and the East Lynn Grange.

In his spare time, he was an avid and skilled bowler. He also enjoyed playing the drums and ping pong.

Tom and his wife, Fleecie, (nobody calls her Frances) enjoyed vacationing in their camper. They traveled all over the country, including Alaska.

He will be missed for his commitment to constantly tinkering, repairing or modifying some mechanical device, and of course, for his lifelong devotion to his wife.

He will be remembered for his fanatical devotion to the Phillies, even before they were good.

Tom had four siblings that predeceased him: Ruth, Charles, Margaret, and Anne.

In addition to his wife, he is survived by his children, Ralph A. Schwendeman & his wife, Susan Latimer, Diane S. Pesce & her husband, Joe Pesce, and Robert J. Schwendeman; his grandchildren, Daniel Schwendeman, Kelly Schwendeman, Alex Schwendeman, Derek Schwendeman & his wife, Kiersten Schwendeman, Nicole Fragale & her husband, Joe Fragale, and Lisa Pesce; and his great-grandchildren, Stella Schwendeman, Roman Fragale, Beckett Schwendeman, and Archer Schwendeman.

His family is also grateful for the excellent care he received from the Ware Presbyterian Senior Living facility personnel in his latter years and the Willow Tree Hospice staff in his final weeks.

Contributions in his memory may be made to Ware Presbyterian Village: www.presbyterianseniorliving.org/donate

Arrangements are by Grieco Funeral Home & Crematory, Inc. (484-734-8100) of Kennett Square, PA. To view his online tribute and to share a memory with his family, please visit www.griecofunerals.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Grieco Funeral Home & Crematory, Inc.

405 W State St, Kennett Square, PA 19348

Make a Donation
in Thomas Schwendeman's name

How to support Thomas's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Thomas Schwendeman's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more