Thomas Clawson Slaughter III III

Thomas Clawson Slaughter III III obituary

Thomas Clawson Slaughter III III

Thomas Slaughter III Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Deschutes Memorial Chapel on Jul. 7, 2025.

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Bend, OR - Thomas Clawson Slaughter III died on June 29 of a heart attack in Bend, Oregon. Born August 24, 1945, in Baltimore, MD, he grew up in Reedville, Virginia, the son of Thomas C. Slaughter, Jr. and Mildred Ann Goeke. He graduated from Emory and Henry College with a bachelor's degree in political science.

He spent his youth on the waters of the Chesapeake Bay; he began with summer jobs in the menhaden fisheries (Zapata Haynie) and trapping in the winter. After college he worked for the park service in Wyoming, then moved to Bozeman, Montana with his first wife, Martha Davis, to transform a historic hotel from a brothel to boutique.

Unknown to everybody at the time, he spent his early 20's in Southeast Asia with the CIA navigating the waterways.

He returned to the US and joined the shrimp industry in Charleston, SC, which quickly turned into co-owning a shrimp boat in Bayou Le Batre, AL., where he fished from Texas to Key West, famously befriending Jimmy Buffet and the Coral Reefers - one of his favorite stories to tell.

He moved north after meeting his second wife Marguerite Staley Maxwell and started a family living on the Eastern Shore working for American Original as a highline clam boat captain, from Chincoteague, VA to Ocean City, MD to Cape May, NJ. They returned to Reedville and bought the family business, Huff and Puff Pet Foods. During this time, he focused on his family, the kids' education, and coaching sports.

He then moved further north to Massachusetts returning to the clam industry first as a boat captain, then as a boat owner, and finally culminating with his own shellfish processing company. It was at Fair Tide Shellfish where he met his third wife, Corinne Silveira, and became a second father to her kids, who he mentored and loved.

He was renowned as an authority in the clamming industry, helping with government regulations, a consultant for companies from the Mid-Atlantic to Gaspe Bay Canada, and has three clam boats named after him, refusing to allow the fourth.

He was an intelligent man, who's great trait was his ability to see the absolute goodness, joy, and talent in anyone no matter their circumstance, economic standing or education. He was a wonderful father, always knowing what the decent thing was to do. He enjoyed reading and loved to debate any issue from either side, constantly used as an encyclopedia for his knowledge.

He was the consummate storyteller

He spent his last five years in Bend, Oregon near the grandkids, residing at Mt Bachelor Assisted Living. His family would like to extend a heartfelt thanks to the dedicated caregivers, who provided wonderful care and emotional support for his final years.

He is survived by his son Thomas C. Slaughter, IV [Christine] and daughter Ann Staley Fitzsimons Slaughter Micken [Brian], granddaughter Eaven Virginia Micken and grandson Rowan Robert Micken; brother, William Byrne Slaughter [Mary Lynn}, two nephews Willam B. Slaughter Jr. [Lisa] and Nicholas Kevin Slaughter; sister, Ann Slaughter Lawrence [Wilbur], along with extended family from all sides who remained close to him throughout his life.

At his request, his ashes will be spread in Buzzards Bay (Massachusetts) and Chesapeake Bay (Virginia) with memorial celebrations to be held at a future date.

In lieu of flowers, please make a donation in memory of Tom to The Special Olympics Massachusetts - https://www.specialolympicsma.org/

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Wallace Emory Lewis, Jr MD

July 11, 2025

Tommy, I wrote you some stories about growing up in Fleeton, catching crabs in the summers and muskrats in the winter! We played football together at Northumberland High School and lost our lunch money (25 cents) playing Blackjack on old bus #9. We had the T& E berry co in Fleeton and how about cutting those 2 acres of asparagras in the spring! Remember how Rodney McFarland would holler at us for throwing the pop bottles overboard at his "Marina", he said it would build up a sand bar and the big yachts would not be able to get to his dock! How about the football games we played in your front yard and the time we broke your sister, ANN's leg by running into her while she was watching us play football on the sidelines! Then we loaded and unloaded the trucks full of cases of Huff and Puff Cat Food that your father made in Reedville! Then you broke some ribs when we played football at Northumberland High School! We had a wonderful childhood in Fleeton but if you got in trouble, you'd get punished twice, once by the mother where you were playing and again by your mother when you got home! I think we had about 50 children in Fleeton when we came along, always enough to play hide and seek or baseball (until we broke the stained- glass windows at St Mary's Church)! Tommy, you might be gone, but you'll never be forgotten! Emory Lewis

Emory Lewis

July 11, 2025

Tommy, many people will miss you

Wallace Emory Lewis, MD

July 11, 2025

Tommy and I grew up in the small town of Fleeton, Va! (Less than 100 people) in the 50's, we had small row boats (skives) in Big Fleet's Pond where we set traps to catch muskrats in the winter months and had fun rowing the boats in the warmer weather! We started the T&E Berry company and sold blue berries to people around Fleeton Point! Later we made and set crabpots, and sold the blue crabs to Melvin Smith near Mac's Marine Service. We'd buy cold colas, moon pies and cakes from Rodney and throw the bottles off the end of his boat dock to make him mad (he said we were making the water shoal and the big boats wouldn't be able to get into his dock! We worked at the Slaughter's pet food company in Reedville, moving cases of Huff and Puff cat and dog food and made a dollar an hour! Later in the teenage years, Tommy helped me cut asparagus in the fields of asparagus near Cockrell's Creek, we made 10 cents for cutting and bunching 2 pounds of asparagus! We also played football both in his long front yard where he lived and accidently ran into his younger sister, Anne, breaking her lower leg! Tommy and I played football the first year our Northumberland High School had a football team. We had a charmed childhood growing up on the water and having boats in the summer and great ice skating in the winter! We also trapped muskrats in the pond near our homes and would check our traps in the mornings before going to school, some days we would catch several muskrats and would skin and stretch their hides, then sell them to Sears Raw Fur Marketing in Pennsylvania, getting $1-2 dollars each and occasionally catching a black one getting $3! We had a charmed childhood with many good memories of playing Monopoly, swimming and playing in our boats on Cockrell's Creek! We were friends for over 75 years, even though some of the Blackjack playing on our school bus ride to school caused us to skip lunch because we had lost our quarter playing Blackjack that morning! Thanks Tommy, we had a blessed childhood growing up on the water around Fleeton Point, where everyone knew you and when you got into trouble you were punished by the mother where you were playing and again by your mother when you got home! "THANKS FOR ALL THE FUN MEMORIES, TOMMY" your buddy, Emory Lewis (Fellow Fleetonian)!

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