Thomas "Benji" Sontheimer

Thomas "Benji" Sontheimer obituary, St. Joseph, MO

Thomas "Benji" Sontheimer

Thomas Sontheimer Obituary

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Benji, 48, St. Joseph, Missouri, passed away Thursday, February 6, 2025; following complications of a stroke.
He was born in Saint Joseph, Missouri to Thomas D. and Cathy L. (Carrel) Sontheimer.
Benji was a proud graduate of Lafayette High School, class of 1994. Carrying the work ethic instilled in him into his professional life; his career began at the young age of 16. Over the years, he dedicated his skills to BJ's Auto, Anderson Ford, Annigan King Hill Body Shop and Altec.
Benji had a passion for fast and loud cars, the freedom of riding his Harley Davidson; especially in poker runs and charity events. He also enjoyed the thrill of a loud sound system. His favorite band, Metallica, was often the soundtrack to his adventures. His loyal dog, Cinnamon, was a constant companion. He found joy in the simple pleasure of good Mexican food complimented by a cold beer shared with family and friends.
Those who knew Benji will remember him as a man who lived life to the fullest, with a smile that could light up a room and a heart that was generous and kind.
He was preceded in death by his sister, Jonna Rehm; friend, Jessie Edwards; grandparents, aunts, uncles and many friends.
Survivors include his cherished daughter, Danyka Sontheimer; parents; sister, Tracy Frye; best friend, Nate Barron (Amy), whom he affectionately referred to as "my brother from another mother", nieces, nephews, extended family and friends.
The family would like to give a special thank you to Heidi Sidwell, RN and Kristen Workman, RN with Mosaic Hospice and the staff at Abundant Acres Care and Rehab.
Celebration of life will be held at a later date. Natural Farewell under the direction of Meierhoffer Funeral Home & Crematory. In lieu of flowers the family suggest memorial contributions to St. Joseph Animal Shelter, Mosaic Hospice or donors choice. Online guest book and obituary at www.meierhoffer.com.
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