Thomas Spinder Obituary
Tom's life story will be shared during his visitation at the funeral home, 1411 Vintage Lane (Between 390 & Long Pond Rd.), Monday, December 22, 4-7 PM. His funeral mass will be celebrated, Tuesday, December 23, 9 AM at St. Pius Tenth Church, 3010 Chili Ave., Rochester, New York 14624. Interment to follow in Oakwood Cemetery, Penfield. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude’s Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959.
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Stephen Pero
December 22, 2025
To m was a great guy, I worked many years with him at Wegmans, may he rest in peace, Steve Pero
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Samantha Paul
December 21, 2025
Tom was our landlord. He will always stop by to or call us see how we are doing and will give our daughter Rayna money for her report card & Christmas gifts. This picture was December 25th 2020. One thing I will miss about him calling me up saying how are those Bills doing. Than I will say how about the Giants lol .
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