Wayne Gainer

Wayne Gainer obituary, Wilmington, DE

Wayne Gainer

Wayne Gainer Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Bennie Smith Funeral Home - Dover on Dec. 19, 2025.
Wayne Eric Gainer, 62, of Milford, DE, died peacefully on 12/08/25, after a long illness. Wayne was born in Waco, TX. His father's Air Force career took him to CA, MA, AL, and DE. He went to Dover HS (Class of 81). Wayne was fueled by a passion for high-performance engines in cars, motorcycles, and airplanes. This led him to become an ASE-certified auto mechanic.
A highlight of his life was being the pit crew chief for George Alderman Racing in New Castle, DE. That enabled him to travel to numerous East Coast racetracks. After moving downstate, Wayne had a long career at Kent Sussex Auto in Milford, where he excelled at diagnosing a variety of automotive problems, all types of mechanical repairs, and complex engine overhauls.
In his free time, Wayne loved to watch NASCAR and racing movies, ride his motorcycle, read, and play his guitar. Wayne was a talker and was always ready to tell you about when he met Paul Newman, visited India, and/or how much he loved playing his airplane simulator game on his computer.
Wayne is survived by his parents: Jere and Sharon Gainer, his daughter, Mindy, and her children, Mariyaa, Husain, Hasan, Mikiel, and Sarafina, his sister, Tammy, and her children, Ashley, Kate, and Elizabeth, his Uncle Barry, and numerous friends who became family. He was preceded in death by his brother, Scott.
Final arrangements provided by Bennie Smith Funeral Homes in Dover. A Celebration of Life service will be at Southside Baptist Church (4904 S. Dupont Hwy, Dover) on Sat, Jan 10, 2026, at 10:30, followed by a luncheon.
A private interment will be at a later date at Barratt's Chapel Cemetery, Frederica.
To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Wayne, please visit our floral store.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Sign Wayne Gainer's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

Bennie Smith Funeral Home - Dover

717 W Division Street, Dover, DE 19904

Make a Donation
in Wayne Gainer's name

How to support Wayne's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Wayne Gainer's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Wayne Gainer's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?